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Formal Introduction : Introduction : - I am said to be very modest and reserved .. I am somewhat of a recluse who lives a rather mundane and monotonous life .. although wanting to be welcoming and receptive of love my diffidence has to a great extent impaired my ability to do so .. I tend to be quite guarded and evasive as vulnerability and openness is frightening to me .. this has consequently lead to the deterioration of a social life and deprived me of certain experiences .. nevertheless I think of myself as compassionate and sensitive .. and deserving of the same in a partner or companion .. what I hope to find is more than a short-lived attraction .. I would like to know someone for something that is both lasting and meaningful .. - I'm most fond of mature men .. I'm enamored by the nature and character of older men .. I find older men to be more affectionate and engaging .. there is this warmth about them that is very comforting and enchanting almost .. I feel a sense of security and stability .. there is also a level of maturity and intelligence that is acquired with age and experience .. as they tend to be more cultured and experienced .. and often possessing of all the qualities one would find appealing or endearing in a mate or spouse .. that are lost or found less among my peer group .. all of these attributes strengthen the attraction or affinity I have for older men .. and for all these reasons I believe there is more to enjoy or appreciate .. Intimacy : - Intimacy of any kind be it romantic or sexual feels very intrusive to me .. so I've preferred isolation opposed to the emotional and physical intimacy expected in a relationship .. I'm very pessimistic and as a consequence I have difficulty establishing and developing relationships .. so much so that maintaining close relationships is problematic for me .. in the past I preferred time spent alone and found less satisfaction in time spent out or with others .. and for this reason I've had very few friends, little interest in relationships, and a lack of desire for such until now .. this forum allows me to express without fear or inhibition what I would not be able to communicate or verbalize in person .. - I’m afflicted with a great deal of social<b> anxiety .. </font></b>this is owing to a lack of confidence and self-esteem .. so my ability to be intimate is also limited or restrained by that .. my timidness is often mistaken as me being apathetic or uninterested in dating .. when in actuality I’m just apprehensive or intimidated .. I am to a degree introverted and withdrawn .. I might strike someone as being distant and unobtainable .. I am very reticent or socially removed at times .. I can seem detached or emotionally disconnected .. I can give the impression of being absent or inaccessible .. in that I sometimes appear to be unavailable or emotionally uninvolved .. all of these fears and suppression within myself has impeded on and precluded the prospect of a serious relationship for me .. In Closing : - I am not seeking a causal relationship .. I desire something more enduring and substantial .. ideally a relationship with someone who shares my interests .. and whose lifestyle and personality is compatible with mine .. I no longer want to observe love from a distance .. I want to participate in it .. and explore the potential of a monogamous relationship .. an exclusive and mutual commitment to each other .. opposed to a series of casual encounters .. I am of the belief that reciprocity is fundamental to the longevity of a relationship .. and to sustain a relationship for any length of time requires a union that is based on trust, communication, and shared respect for each other .. - I have been as forthcoming as one can be .. I hope I have answered any question or curiosity you might have about me .. I seek someone who has the ability to enrich or better the life of his partner through his support and investment .. I seek someone who is not discouraged by the criticism or objection to this kind of relationship .. age and appearances are unimportant to me .. I only ask for authenticity and that you be genuine in your response .. as sincerity is important to me .. I am being honest so I ask that you be the same .. having said all of this if you find that anything I've stated resonates with you then I look forward to becoming acquainted with those of the same mind and seeking the same .. |
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