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Opening up  

xneedxoralx 40M/42F
1 posts
6/16/2018 7:33 pm
Opening up

The decision to open our marriage wasn't an easy one. We struggled with infidelity and the dishonesty that goes along with that, and we finally reached a point where it was either live like roommates that didn't like each other much (something neither of us wanted) or come to some kind of agreement that would work for us both.

I've never been overly emotional when it comes to sex. When we got married, I knew my husband was the same way, but it wasn't until we opened this door that I fully realized the extent to which he is emotionally disengaged with sex. Knowing this has made this new arrangement SO much easier! I don't have to worry about my husband getting attached to the guys who blow him or the girls he fucks, and knowing this, I realized I didn't care who he had relations with so long as he was honest about it all.

This level of honesty has brought us so much closer together and we're having so much fun learning about one another again! We fuck almost every single day and I can't seem to get enough of him. I feel like I got my spark back! He is so incredibly sexy to me (not that he wasn't before) and I know he feels the same about me. We laugh and play and flirt and fuck like we're dating again and it's amazing.

I can't wait to see where all this leads us!

JoelG1967 57M
106 posts
9/9/2018 11:02 am

 Getting that spark back is very important.


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