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The downfall of having an affair
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The downfall of having an affair Ok so, I've not been in this situation before.......you know "the other woman" and I haven't really had any feelings about it, no judgement.. It is what it is.......it is OMG the most amazing sex I've ever had and the thing that's so weird about it is he's my best friend and I am his....... We share everything with each other (all without judgement- things we've never been able to share with our spouses or anyone else)....feelings, emotions, wildest fantasies along with acting them out, my hookups, his hookups. All the naughty details and its hot! It's foreplay for us. The thing that I am finding is we don't have emotional attachments for each other, I mean we care about each other and have the most amazing connection when it comes to sex, the sex is mind-blowing (Ok I'll quit bragging LO  ...but here's what I find myself thinking of when were not together...I don't want to date him, I don't want to know what his wife and look like.......but I am curious of the other things........He has a Harley, I would love to go for a ride with him in his environment! He loves to cook, I would love to see him in a kitchen, he used to be a stripper- I would love to see him dance. My hubby and I went on a float trip a few weeks ago and hubby isnt social, guys were whistling at me and offering beads if I took my top off...I politely said "no thank you" because I was there with my husband and that's not his thing, he a bit on the conservative side..and then I started thinking about my "play-toy" and realized if he was there, he would've been egging the guys on about my incredible body and would've loved it if i would've taken my top off, he probably would've helped me take it off offering a awesome show.....he would've loved to have seen me topless all day long!So its not that i want to date him....I just want to see what he is like outside of the bedroom.........or wait, I would also like see in the bedroom- morning sex.. Oh damn..... MMMMM .............what I wouldn't do for morning sex! K so open to hearing what others have to say about it...... |
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I know excatly what you mean! I'm in a very similar situation! We can't wake up together! Can't go out to dinner in public! I can't meet her kids! But the sex is off the hook!! And we are best friends and lovers! 
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Some times it's about friendship and a connection with that person that not many understand the excitement between two people and then going in separate directions but remaining friends though thick and thin
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This is the kind of experience that I am also interested in. My wife is also the conservative type. Nothing negative to say about her. She just knows that she cannot be the one who fulfills the fantasies that I have talked to her about. She isn't interested in taking our sexual relationship in new directions. I haven't yet had sex with someone else. Maybe someday I will find a playmate that fulfills me in similar ways to what you are experiencing. I hear what you are saying about wanting to experience things with the other person outside of the bedroom as well. It isn't all about the sex. There is a lot of other fun to be had with someone you really click with.
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