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The Joy of Giving  

JaniceJanes 49T  
707 posts
7/3/2018 9:29 am
The Joy of Giving

I think all of us have gotten a good feeling when we take the time to give the perfect gift to someone for some occasion or maybe no special occasion at all. But you probably put extra thoughts in to picking the perfect gift and took the time needed to find it. You’ve given that person a joyous moment that they will not soon forget and their excitement has made you feel extra appreciated and a feeling of pride for what you have done for them.

I recommend we apply that to the Joy of Giving Unforgettable Sex.

I mean making Love to your partner in such a way as to provide him or her with the most remarkable and memorable feeling they ever experienced. Get away from that few minutes of bouncing around the sheets, having a quick release, cleaning up with someone’s dirty towel and getting back to the normal grind. Make it extra special. Become the Goddess of Love.

Just like finding the perfect gift, put some thought in to planning the perfect sex.

What does your partner what? What can you do to give them the ultimate pleasure?

Here’s how I plan the perfect sexual experience;

First, dress in a sensual way. Not slutty, but in a stylishly sexy way. Think about what they will see first. Do your hair and fingernails with a little more care.

Second, prepare the atmosphere for a relaxing evening. Make sure the room is neat and clean with a touch of anticipation. Low lighting, soft background music and have the bed partially turned down. Scented candles can help but don’t get ones with an overpowering aroma.

Third, greet them with gentle hug. Don’t open the door and grab their crouch and ram your tongue down their throat. Maybe have on just a dab of subtle mysterious<b> perfume.

</font></b>Have their favorite drink available if you know what it is. If you don’t know, go with a dry white wine like a Sauvignon Blanc only slightly chilled.

Forth, and most important, slow things down. A little conversation unrelated to sex to start things off. The old “How was your day?” always works. Delay or completely avoid sex talk. Nothing can kill the moment faster for me then hearing the word “FUCK” in any context. Such a vile, degrading word for a time when passionate pleasure is the plan for the evening.

The rest of the evening is up to him or her. Follow their lead but keep it in the slow lane. You want to create a memory not a blurry image of lustfulness,

A closing note, the next day give them a call and tell them you had the most wonderful evening even though you’re the one that gave the perfect gift.

Jan


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
7/4/2018 9:59 am

 Very Nice!!


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