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Anal sex... I hear so many people say that they would NEVER... But I have to say, with gentleness, persistence, and lots of lube.....nothing feels dirtier, kinkier, or hotter. Nothing will make you come as hard as being fucked up the ass. Yes, hygiene is a thing. There is prep, and condoms are needed also. But wow. done right, anal is exceptional. |
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Absolutely.......I couldn't agree more!!!!!!
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11/27/2018 5:22 pm |
I'll do it the lady wants, but you can't beat a wet pussy first!
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So true, prep is everything!! I am a lover of positive energy. Fun happens when positivity pops!
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That's definitely the right mindset!
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Slow and focusing on her body language and listen!!!!
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I'll take it for you! xo Kat
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11/27/2018 5:39 pm |
Nope! 
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Every time I try to message you FriendFinder-x blocks me and when you send me messages it gets blurred out by FriendFinder-x.......
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I agree but your partner must be squeaky clean and def need the lube. Great experience, but I do prefer the other holes better!
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Never tried it...possibly something to consider with a wrap
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I will try to IM you tomorrow.......on here!!!!
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Definitely in the sense of the intimacy in preparation. But individually woman are known to prep in advance... but all in addition to my other comment(s). Unfortunately, men and certainly boys in general haven't a clue to the how, whats, why or where and simply treat anal penetration like any other orifice.
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90% of sex is in the mind .Preconcieved ideas can make aanything uncomfortable and bad .The right mindset and ability to relax and accept the feelings ,the desire to experience it is a big factor .Knowlege and prep is next in line . The tissue is quite flexible when prepared and relaxed , not flexible at all when terrified and not prepared .my ex loved anal play , tongue , fingers, toys ,but she balked at my cock going in .She did eventually take my cock .several times and climaxed .It took 18 years of working up to it .She was a very sensitive and scared person by nature but in the right moment she did it .
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11/27/2018 7:41 pm |
I've only ever done it once but jesus was it fun
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"fucked up the ass" being the first of many fallacies in the concept. Mostly by men but also women. I'd replace gentleness with finesse, persistence with patience and include a whole lot of knowing what your playing with, why and what you're trying to achieve in response. Fucking implies a long hard fast stroke but just getting in the door (with the proper stimulation objectives) can take well over an hour. And once inside, the stroke is often shorter than the reach and the least of sensations that ultimately enhance orgasms. ps: condoms for inanimate projectiles too 
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11/27/2018 8:38 pm |
I am getting there with my wife and when you do it slow and right she loves it!
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Most women I've been with like anal play but won't try penetration. Usually because someone has done it badly and hurt them. I'd be prepared to wait for the relationship to develop but it would be great to be able to tell who would be up for it eventually. When you find out they aren't up for it you're already in a relationship. Having taken the time to learn to do it well: it's a waste of time learning. The idiots who just want to shove it in are too numerous and have usually got there first, destroying the opportunity for everyone else. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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I know how to do it, I do it with permission, I like it, and am open to it anytime!
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Have never done it, but willing to try with the right partner.
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11/28/2018 12:13 am |
Licking pussy & making her dripping wet helps.
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I see that you sent me an FriendFinder-x message, I cant read it tho, try me on MY blog!
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11/28/2018 7:22 am |
. I'm with you 100%
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I asked an ex of mine to try this and it took quite awhile and a few failed attempts. But she really started to enjoy it and asked for it from time to time. I am all for prep and keeping things as clean as possible, but don't think I've ever used a condom when my ex and I engaged in anal sex.
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You comment is true about sex in general. All sex is a matter of knowing what you are doing. Even relationships like Dom/sub, it is a partnership, built on trust and respect. This is the part too many get wrong. It's a shame. “Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.” ― Oscar Wilde
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11/30/2018 10:09 am |
Sounds amazing what else would you like
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