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raymondinKC 62M
12 posts
7/9/2018 9:54 pm
This site


I've been on here for at least for years and just recently became a paying member. The site has changed over the years. There used to be a lot more free features and benefits just for signing on and looking around. The member benefits are worth the money, but the majority of people who use the site, not so much. I've met and chatted with one person and she is an old transgender girlfriend of mine from the 90s.

Most of the people near me on here are couples looking for females and other couples. I've made a few friends, but none have replied to my direct messages or e mails. I've had a few friend requests, but mostly from gay men who I have no sexual interests in. I also get spammed from females with g mail accounts, I don't have high hopes for my luck of meeting someone on here, but I will keep trying for now.

japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
7/10/2018 9:10 am

ya, that sums it up...pretty much...the site won't give nothing much to free members...

good luck on your search...

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My comment here will serve its purpose, but put the first comment by yourself next time when you post your blog posts,. It will make your blog post to show up in the "Recently Posts". Otherwise, your post will never show up amywhere else, and no one will know you have posted your blogs. So much for writing a blog post, but no one notice, right?

This first comment in your blog posts doesn't have to be anything special, people just put "The magic comment", "My obligatory comment", or you can really write what you wanna say, in your first comment, too.

There are some wonderful bloggers here, so be sure to go to other bloggers' post, and leave them your comments. It's a good way to mingle and reciprocate!

And if you are a santadard member, you can set up a private inbox, so even if you can't communicate with other members though mails, you still can communicate though your blogs.

Happy blogging, and let us know if you have any other questions in regards to the blogs, we are happy to assist you.


raymondinKC 62M
14 posts
7/12/2018 9:54 pm

Thanks very much for your reply and advice. I appreciate it!


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