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A Taoist Approach to Sex.
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A Taoist Approach to Sex. A little about my Taoist approach to sex. I am a relative newbie as it pertains to the Taoist philosophy in general. However, I have studied the sexual practices of the ancient Chinese masters more extensively. Taoism is about balance. As it pertains to sex, there is a natural imbalance between the sexual natures of males and females. While men are very quick to become aroused and climax, women are quite a bit slower to reach their highest level of sexual arousal. The ancient masters termed male sexual desire as fire and female desire as water to describe these differences which are at the core of the imbalance. The imbalance is further magnified the vastly superior female sexual capacities which far outstrip that of a male. In the most simple terms, a male's sexual response rises and falls very quickly, while a female's response rises slowly, but once at its height will last much, much, much longer than her male partner. Thousand of years before modern sexual research confirmed it, the Taoist masters discovered that the best way to balance out these differences in sexual capacity is for a male to control his urge to ejaculate while using his energies to arouse his female partner. A common misconception, particularly in Western culture, is to equate ejaculation with orgasm. The ancient masters knew differently and modern research has shown that ejaculation and orgasm are actually two separate and distinct sexual responses. I have found this to be true for myself as I have cultivated through my personal, solo practice of ejaculation control. I have developed the ability to delay ejaculation while still experiencing the heights of sexual pleasure which allows me to remain aroused and energized the sexual energy that pulsates throughout my body. This allows me to use this energy to arouse my partner to her highest plateaus of sexual expression and pleasure. I have been fortunate enough to experience firsthand what it is like to be with a woman who abandons herself to the throes of sexual<b> ecstasy </font></b>and becomes insatiable. I follow the Taoist approach to sex utilizing a great deal of sensual touch and massage over a woman's entire body (not just her obvious erogenous zones--her sacred spot, breasts, buttocks, etc.) to slowly stoke the fires of her passion. Once a woman's sexual furnace is burning , only then, will I enter her body physically. I feel that I provide a different sexual adventure than what most women typically experience with other men. My hope is that the rapture she experiences in her time with me will carryover and dividends other areas of her life. This very thing happened during an evening with a young couple. She was still so turned on after leaving me that she literally jumped her man's bones...including the next morning. And I only understood a fraction back then compared to now. This story is captured in my blog post entitled "One Enchanted Evening" which is a work of creative non-fiction I wrote. I do not take credit for this since I am only following what the ancient Chinese masters taught thousands of years ago. I am simply a medium for a woman willing to allow herself to open up to what naturally occurs within her mind, body, and soul. If you have experienced any of this, even in a fleeting manner, you understand the truth of what I am saying. And again, I am simply a humble student in the of the Tao. Michael  |
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