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Are you real?  

Lucky657777 55M
14 posts
8/16/2018 6:32 pm

Last Read:
8/17/2018 7:14 pm

Are you real?


Tell me ladies, how do I tell if you are for real or not.? You engage in interesting conversations and then you go away. If you are not interested say so. The other problems are the men who pretend to be ladies. How do you get them identified faster?

Lucky657777 55M

8/17/2018 6:38 pm

Woman who don’t chat obviously are not interested. A clear and acceptable message. Woman who start a chat and end with a not interested also a clear and acceptable message. Those who have a lengthy chat on more than one occasion we are grown-ups, I would love if you would respond but I do not care if you don’t. Men and men pretending to be woman, if the profile says interested in woman only, please stay away.


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
8/17/2018 8:48 am

Just because women dont chat with you does not mean they are rude or fake. You have no idea how many messages/IMs we get and not possible to respond to every single one. If I am engaged in a chat with another person and you come online I am not going to start chatting with you. I don't do that plus I cant keep multiple conversations going anyway. As it has been said, lots of reasons why and you just have to move on if you dont care for how things are going.


BrokerIns 52M
32 posts
8/16/2018 8:49 pm

Nice to read you have a great day


eagnas234 56M

8/16/2018 8:39 pm

i agree with you lucky65777 most people are rude or fake.


ds264i 59F

8/16/2018 7:12 pm

Great question. I just told this one gentleman that people come on the site because they are bored, horny, curious, or genuinely looking for something specific. When someone responds back, it is like a pail of cold water. They either have to interact or rethink what they are about to get into. Plus, this site has its days of delayed messaging.

"If you haven't experienced it, you don't have an opinion."


benard69 66M/66F  

8/16/2018 6:55 pm

Some folks just chat to chat...Kind of like striking up a conversation while waiting for a bus...Doesn't mean you are going to take them home...


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/16/2018 6:52 pm

I always found the guy most generally stops talking and goes away..doesn't mean hes fake but one guy told me , at least he was honest, that a lot of guys message more than one woman when the first one answers he chats up that one and when another shows up he chats with that one and if one or the other isn't what he looks for one is dropped ...its human nature to choose but at least he should say ...I know that I am real and if someone wanted to see my id its on file I will send it...


Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
8/16/2018 6:42 pm

People stop contact for various reasons. Doesn't always mean a fake. Could be married and cheating but was caught. Family emergency. Something the other person said. If the person never did this before it could be cold feet. Yes some is fake but no longer hearing from the person doesn't mean she was.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


Lucky657777 55M

8/16/2018 6:33 pm

This place gets frustrating with all the fake people


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