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Is there a Generation Gap?
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Is there a Generation Gap? I have stated on here a few times I am sure, if not I will state it again. I don't date ladies too far away from my age bracket due to the differences in life experiences, tastes, and all that. The generation gaps, if you will. I do like some of the music, bands my like, but they do listen to some that I'm like...um no. I will take my youngest who lives with me, to see some movies that I would never dream of taking a date to. But she's my . I won't even go into all the other parameters, but lets just leave it at, there really isn't any aspects of life, where there isn't a generation gap. But wait!!! I think I found one!! I have a very good, open and honest relationship with all my , but me and my youngest are really tight. She's 16, quick to remind me almost 17, and has been living with me for the last two years. We talk about everything. While we don't get into details, she knows I'm on a "less than vanilla" dating site. Last night, we were talking about dating, online dating and some of the benefits. But mostly about the downsides, the crap that women put up with and some of the heartaches that can and do arise. While the conversation started on the later, this talk created a revelation to me, when it turned more towards the crazy crap that goes on with guys on the internet. Yes, gentlemen, and I use that term loosely, you have shown me that there is one area that is not age specific. Completely void of any generational gap. Now again, it's not all men. But after doing some searches on here, I'm coming up with a number around 82%. So certainly a majority. For the record, she doesn't date much. Doesn't go out with anyone, unless I've met them. And I don't mean, introduced to me as he's picking her up. Over protective, maybe, but I can live with that. Some bells can't be unrung. She isn't on any dating sites, but she's a so she's on Instagram, the FB messenger.. the comments here are in reference to the similarities there and on FriendFinder-x. We started with just the rude and crude comments guys post. I'm telling her about some of the stupid things guys say on here to try and attract women. She starts describing some of the things her and her friends put up with. Yep, pretty much the same, "hey wanna fuck", "do you suck dick". I'm both amazed and being the dad type, a little pissed off. Later I'll describe why it wasn't as bad once I heard the whole story. Anyways, I think my favorite on the "comments " portion of our discussion, is what I call the cave man vocabulary. When they want to know if the girls will send nude pics..they can't piece together even a simple sentence like, "hey, will you share any nude pics?" No, it's a Neanderthal, "Nudes?" One stinking word is all they can come up with. No use wasting any effort..I mean what if she says no. Don't want to have wasted all that time with a long sentence first. Much less get to know her a little bit with some conversation. Amazing! The it was dick pics. Oh yeah, this isn't just something for the older folk. The younger generation of men seem to think the way to pick up women is to fly that dick like a flag, apparently just like some of the older guys on here. No generation gap there fellas. Good job. Doesn't matter if it's big or small, it's in her words, "like they think they have to prove that , yeah I'm a guy and I have a dick, promise". So being the dad, I had to ask. So little one, what do you say to them when they send you those messages, or wave the penile banner at you. Her response, "Oh hell, you never respond to them. If you do, even if it's to say not interested, they blow up and spam you with crazy hateful messages." Priceless! Again, no age differences here. Seems like the inability to take a "not interested, thanks", knows no age boundaries either. I said earlier, why I wasn't as mad at the idiots prospecting for my daughters attention. Here's a 16 year old that already has these idiot guys figured out and how to deal with them. LOL. Apparently , there is no generation gap when it comes to women being smart enough to know how to deal with the 82% that are just<b> bone </font></b>heads. So I have been proven wrong. There is at least one area where there is no generational gap. Don't think I'm going to change my dating preferences over it, but it was enlightening. I did want to thank the 82% of guys. You've set the bar for successful communication with women so low, my daughters 3 month old Beagle can step over it without jumping. Just makes it that much easier for the rest of us guys. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx |
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She also showed me this video of a commedian she saw on a fb post. You can find it by doing the goo search , under DeAnne Smith, straight men step up your game. You'd swear it was written about the interactions on here. LOL " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Sounds like you have raised an awesome daughter there, very smart too. Not many dads I know that are close to their teenage daughters like you are, so that's so very commendable. Now for the dick pics, my take on it is they think it's their best asset..  and its NOT and it's not just the younger ones I know a lot of well mannered younger men and they don't act like that for the most part, they are very respectable from what I have seen. I hope you have a great week..  Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on.. 
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I really enjoyed reading this. Your analysis was spot on. And I admire the open and honest relationship you have with your daughter. Loved her advice on how to handle requests for nude pics or if she wanted to receive ‘dick pics’. Think I will start using that approach on here!
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9/24/2018 12:51 pm |
Good post. My thought is on the dick pics that you can set them as a profile on an adult site like this that let's you use explicit content but you shouldn't just send them to anyone without asking first. It might seem rude to say "Want a pick of my cock?" but that's better than just doing it.
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Sounds like you have raised an awesome daughter there, very smart too. Not many dads I know that are close to their teenage daughters like you are, so that's so very commendable. Now for the dick pics, my take on it is they think it's their best asset.. and its NOT and it's not just the younger ones I know a lot of well mannered younger men and they don't act like that for the most part, they are very respectable from what I have seen. I hope you have a great week.. I'm sure it's not everyone...but even from her viewpoint, she say's it's the majority of the ones around the online stuff. Maybe it's just truly internet anonymity that brings out the behavior. I do find it sad to think any guy would think it's his best asset. I'm a guy, pretty damn proud of mine too...but I wouldn't call it my best asset. LOL Thanks trzz interesting viewpoint as always. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I really enjoyed reading this. Your analysis was spot on. And I admire the open and honest relationship you have with your daughter. Loved her advice on how to handle requests for nude pics or if she wanted to receive ‘dick pics’. Think I will start using that approach on here! I was proud of her, for handling the bone heads. I'm a dad, I worry about her. I might have been more respectful, but I was still a teen age guy. I know what I was thinking about most of the time. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Good post. My thought is on the dick pics that you can set them as a profile on an adult site like this that let's you use explicit content but you shouldn't just send them to anyone without asking first. It might seem rude to say "Want a pick of my cock?" but that's better than just doing it. I don't think I've ever asked anyone if they wanted to see a pic. If it happens, she's either asked, or we've been exchanging some other pics first. Even then, it's been few . I think there was only one FWB that asked for a dick pic before we met. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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"Oh hell, you never respond to them. If you do, even if it's to say not interested, they blow up and spam you with crazy hateful messages." Pretty smart for 17 and a lot smarter than some women here who often respond vs. just block and move on. I did want to thank the 82% of guys. I thank them for making me look like a saint.  When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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LOL, I'm going to share that with my daughter. I can see her doing that. You've done a great job raising a smart young woman. Nice job. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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"Oh hell, you never respond to them. If you do, even if it's to say not interested, they blow up and spam you with crazy hateful messages." Pretty smart for 17 and a lot smarter than some women here who often respond vs. just block and move on. I did want to thank the 82% of guys. I thank them for making me look like a saint. And though I like to believe I know how to talk to a lady, and it really is just common decency and simple stuff. Show some interest. But the bar is set really low . Thanks for your thoughts, man. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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LOL, so now I'm getting lots of views from guys with dick pic profiles. Two messages so far.. Not naming names, not into the shaming thing. Just funny One was a long explanation as to why he has it as his profile pic, and why I should change mine. Yeah...that's gonna happen any time now. Just wait for it. The other, was as mad as a guy being told, "sorry not interested". Lots of colorful names and the old, but always scary..."gonna kick your ass". Love internet tough guys. LOL " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Hm. The gap between Haves and Have Nots is widening. The gap between High and Low IQ is widening. Are we now seeing a widening of the gap between Neanderthals and Homo Sapiens? Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!
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Hm. The gap between Haves and Have Nots is widening. The gap between High and Low IQ is widening. Are we now seeing a widening of the gap between Neanderthals and Homo Sapiens? Great comment. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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It's sort of a policy I have of never reposting any messages. but to paraphrase. The first one had a good point. all about since he was just looking for hook ups, one night kind of things, it let the girls see how big he was. I'm not in the habit of checking out dudes, but I've been in plenty of locker rooms. He wasn't that big. He lost me when he was trying to convince me that I'd get more "action" if I changed my profile pic, cause ladies are more into dicks than they are guitars. The second one was just going ape. Think he might have had a friend helping him come up with names for me, cause it was a list. Told me how if I was anywhere near him, he'd come look me up and beat my ass, then do something to me with his dick pic. I'm thinking he meant his dick, not his pic. But who knows. Ended with a "probably have a little dick that I'm ashamed of. I did respond to him with a , "hey, it may only be a one inch dick, but my momma tells me it's special". And blocked him. Oh it's in no way just the young ones. I went incognito on the search.. then searched guys profiles , in different age brackets. Picked odd numbers off of 6 pages in each age bracket. then averaged them all. Looked at the comments on pictures. ie..the wow you have beautiful breasts, as compared to. I'd love to slam my cock into between your tits and cum all over your face. There really wasn't much difference in the 20 to 30, 31 to 40, 41-50..and the 50 + It's amazing. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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One of the main reasons I had and continue to have these talks with my daughter. I agree on the men side of it. We had the concept of respect, in all things, but certainly for women, quite literally beat into us. While I don't agree with the methods, I'm very happy in the outcome. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Did anyone actually go google that stand up comedian. I just watched it again. my god it's hilarious. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Wasn't it perfect? I'd swear she had to have spent the last year or two on here. LOL. I love your clams vs sausage statement. Made me laugh. Well not on the giving up part. Still thinking there's got to be some guy in OK that isn't driving the straight ladies to the other team.  " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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You are so lucky that you can have open, honest discussions with your daughter - especially when she is only 16, going on 17. And it's also great that she has already figured out that Darwin is weeding out the creeps for her. She'll go a long way, with her attitude. Check out my profile or and become a "watcher" of my blog FMAOPLS,to learn more about me, and for intelligent, lively, smartassy and fun discussion, with a little irreverence thrown in. "Like" or comment on my photos, and I promise I'll add more. Thanks.
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You are so lucky that you can have open, honest discussions with your daughter - especially when she is only 16, going on 17. And it's also great that she has already figured out that Darwin is weeding out the creeps for her. She'll go a long way, with her attitude. This one being ten years younger than the next oldest, is one of the best and easiest kids I raised. LOL And yes..she's a really smart young lady. Thank you. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Yeah it's crazy what goes on with online stuff these days. Sorta lazy if you ask me. LOL But yeah, it's starting really young. She's a smart young lady, and I'm very proud of her. There's always some rude and obnoxious people. Luckily there's enough respectful and cool people to counteract them. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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