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Of Human Bondage
Of Human Bondage I pride myself as being a guy that does his thinking with the big head. And 99% of the time, it's really not that hard for me to do. There was one time though, that I'd thought I'd share, where I could have at least made a better decision. Wasn't a case of not thinking at all, just a poor decision in regards to "what could go wrong". This was the Spring after I got divorced, so around 14 years ago. Maybe I'll plead, "newly divorced, and sowing some pent up oats". Ok, never mind, we'll just stick with poor decisions. I was at a weekend music festival in Austin. One of those where people would set up little "camps" during the off times. Sit around and party. I had my little camp set up and was sitting around playing guitar and<b> singing </font></b>with a few, "like minded" people. (threw that in there for BigLala) A really nice looking, blonde lady comes up and sits down on the grass beside me. We talk a bit, drink a bit, she's listening as we jam. Then when we're taking a break she comes over and whispers in my ear, "I'd really like to have some private fun with you". We agree to go to her apartment. At this point, I had thought it out. Couldn't see any problems. So I packed up the guitar and lawn chairs, and followed her back to her apartment. For the sake of brevity, lets just say we played around a bit. Little mental foreplay, some kissing and fondling, which led us to the bedroom. After about an hour of some really good sex, she asks the question. Have you ever been tied up? Knowing what I know now, I would have responded with something that showed a modicum of intelligence. But exercising every ounce of my poor decision making I say, "nope, but I'm open to try". /sigh So she gets out some handcuffs, some rope, some scarves. She's obviously done this before, and I'm figuring I'm in good hands. LOL. She cuffs, ties and binds me to the bed spread eagle. I'm still in the moment thinking, ok, this could be fun. And it was for the next bit. She sucks on me, rides me. Hell, this is great!!! Then the moment that is still etched in my mind. She gets up and says, I'll be right back, and leaves the room. I'm laying there, thinking that was fun, when I hear a door shut. I lay there for a few minutes, then call her name. Nothing. I call again, a bit louder. Nothing. It hits me like a ton of bricks, she just left. Oh shit!! I can't say for sure how long I laid there, but it was at least two hours. I'm thinking of all the scenarios. Maybe she went to get a friend, we had discussed threesomes with her girlfriend. Wait, what if she comes back with a guy? What do I do if she doesn't come back today. I'm tied and handcuffed to a heavy frame , so I'm not breaking out of this one. It was not a fun couple of hours, let me tell you. Finally, I hear the door again. She walks into the room. I'm checking, trust me, no one with her. She say's something to the effect of did I enjoy my alone time. Now here's where I finally start thinking with the big head again. I put on a smile and say something to the effect of , you had me a bit worried. Is that part of the game? She explains yes, I waffle around a bit. She talks some bondage stuff and gets around to liking to be top and bottom. So I convince her to let me go, and lets try it the other way. She unties my legs, and gets the key for the handcuffs. I'm off the bed, like it was on fire. Now free, I'm pissed. Somewhat at her, but mainly at myself for not thinking it through. There are all sorts of scenarios that had run through my mind. I didn't like any of them. So as I'm grabbing my clothes and getting dressed, she's trying to convince me to stay. I'm staying calm, but in no way dissuaded from my new plan of getting the hell out of there. She follows me to all the way to the front door and out onto the landing, asking what's wrong. LOL I turned as I hit the stairs and said, parts where fun, but I've decided I really am not into bondage. Have a good one. It was a good lesson, and was enough to get me back to thinking things through. Maybe, just maybe, I'll go the rest of my life without under thinking the situation. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx |
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I was talking to a good friend from here about this, and thought I had already posted about this. Guess not. Feel free to laugh. Have you ever found yourself, in a sexual situation, not thinking things through? Or hell, just not thinking at all. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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11/8/2018 12:51 pm |
wow sweetheart that was a bit much ..I don't think the part of her asking if you enjoyed your alone time was part of her plan though ..Little voice says so...well lesson learned so to speak.
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11/8/2018 12:53 pm |
I was talking to a good friend from here about this, and thought I had already posted about this. Guess not. Feel free to laugh. Have you ever found yourself, in a sexual situation, not thinking things through? Or hell, just not thinking at all.
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Exactly...and certainly so where any bondage is involved. Better have a really high level of trust.. I know I'd have to know someone a long time before ever getting cuffed to a bed again. LOL " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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wow sweetheart that was a bit much ..I don't think the part of her asking if you enjoyed your alone time was part of her plan though ..Little voice says so...well lesson learned so to speak. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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on another note same subject have you ever watched a movie called Gerald's Game? Its a movie much the same as your scenario but with a few twists very dramatic but I figure you would like it " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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This is why you have to be with someone you trust when you play sex games like this being tied up can lead to some disastrous situations which apparently went through your mind obviously. So sorry this happened to you and I am sure you learned a lot from this sexual adventure. I know how vulnerable you must have felt and thank you for sharing this with us as its a great learning experience read for sure. I hope your day continues to be a good one..
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This is why you have to be with someone you trust when you play sex games like this being tied up can lead to some disastrous situations which apparently went through your mind obviously. So sorry this happened to you and I am sure you learned a lot from this sexual adventure. I know how vulnerable you must have felt and thank you for sharing this with us as its a great learning experience read for sure. I hope your day continues to be a good one.. JK...like I said, very poor decision making on my part. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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All of a sudden I find myself wishing I'd have seen that movie beforehand. Though I'm not sure it was out in time to avert my idiotic decision. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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You men are just too easy. Lol
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You men are just too easy. Lol Of course, I'm still young..who knows. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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2 hours . . hmm That is a little too intense for me, after the first 5 or 6. I'm just thinking about that one ! Yep ... never been there. Excellent safety tip and one that I'll definitely follow. Thanks ! ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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2 hours . . hmm That is a little too intense for me, after the first 5 or 6. I'm just thinking about that one ! Yep ... never been there. Excellent safety tip and one that I'll definitely follow. Thanks ! " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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11/8/2018 2:42 pm |
2 hours- OMG. I would have broke something by then. The headboard- my wrists. You have to know that games are on my different levels.... Spin the bottle game- can be played with a stranger 10 minutes in the closet. - a friend of a friend Finger in the ass- almost anybody. Hahaha just kidding. A friend Handcuffs- a relationship lover. Trusting someone is huge when playing this game. Lesson learned and one hell of a good story💕
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11/8/2018 2:49 pm |
It could have been really bad. Never let them tie you up and restrain you. Police officers see it all and always warn people. Never allow yourself to be tied helpless. You were lucky.
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2 hours- OMG. I would have broke something by then. The headboard- my wrists. You have to know that games are on my different levels.... Spin the bottle game- can be played with a stranger 10 minutes in the closet. - a friend of a friend Finger in the ass- almost anybody. Hahaha just kidding. A friend Handcuffs- a relationship lover. Trusting someone is huge when playing this game. Lesson learned and one hell of a good story💕 " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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It could have been really bad. Never let them tie you up and restrain you. Police officers see it all and always warn people. Never allow yourself to be tied helpless. You were lucky. Luckily, I rarely repeat a mistake. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I was talking to a good friend from here about this, and thought I had already posted about this. Guess not. Feel free to laugh. Have you ever found yourself, in a sexual situation, not thinking things through? Or hell, just not thinking at all. When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro. The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.
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I always seem to luck out when it's needed the most. Certainly one of the dumbest things I've done. So much for the "what could go wrong? LOL. Blindfolds? " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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a sexual situation and thinking No never happens " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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I don't think it's male bashing if it's true. And I would have to agree. Most men give up all rationale thought if there's a chance for sex. Mine was doubly stupid, cause I already had sex. I could say I was drinking all day, but I've been drinking plenty of times and still thought things through with the big head. Still not sure, why I said yes on this one. There would have to be a lot of trust involved. LOL...but I wouldn't rule it out completely. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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LOL...Bobbit. Now there's one scenario I didn't think of. Thanks, I'll have nightmares tonight. Like I said, I was pissed ...but way more at myself then at her. I can think of only one other time I regretted a decision I made regarding sex. And that's when I was 21. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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LOL...I remember that episode. And I'm lucky to have gotten out of my situation with only losing a couple of hours and a bit of my pride. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Apparently so, someone mentioned it and I had to look it up. I can't think of a movie based on any of his books that even compared though. I agree completely on the 'after accident". Not sure why that is exactly, but I would say the same. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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Also, let me say kudo's for answering the question. I noticed no one else wanted to post anything they did that was .."not thinking". LOL I'm willing to bet we're not the only ones that did something that warranted a WTF was I thinking. " I refuse to belong to any organization that would accept me as a member" Groucho Marx
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