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The Idea Versus the Reality
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The Idea Versus the Reality Good morning I hope that everyone is doing well and managing to find what they are looking for on FriendFinder-x, and if not found yet, at least there are some prospects on the horizon. I am a returning standard member to FriendFinder-x. I have been a member a couple of times in the past both on here and also TrannyDates. Com. As you may be able to ascertain I would fall very well into the bisexual category. I have managed to meet a small number of people over the years, but with time the adrenaline rush of being on here wears off. I am very much a stress induced member of FriendFinder-x.com. I have joined in the past when predominantly work stress has got on top of me. There are so many conflicting and overlapping things that go on in your personal and professional life, that at times it can be overwhelming. I try not to eat to much, drink to much, never do drugs, never gamble when I am stressed, but unfortunately I turn to sex. Unfortunately as I am a married family man. I believe I turn to FriendFinder-x.com.as a large percentage of people are looking for NSA encounters. I have always stated that I am looking for discrete and drama free fun. The idea that there will be someone in a similar situation is the optimism that brings you back. You see all of the very attractive men, women and CD/TS on here and it is almost addicting when you keep logging back in checking for notifications. You are excited when there are flirts and views and check to see who is looking at you. This is where reality decides to introduce itself. You cannot see their profiles, you cannot send them messages, unless they have obtained the membership when standard can say hello. So in reality, you can see some small details, can’t communicate unless they accept your chat request on IM. This realization has led to me canceling my account in the past. You are married family man who should not be doing this, you do not have much free time and as a result any meetings would be on your schedule, at your bidding and where you can go. You are not at your new lovers beck and call. When they want to meet, to chat, to hold and have sex when they are needing a physical connection you are not there. It is a very selfish existence being on here as a married family man. It looks as though there are lot more<b> men looking </font></b>for women than women looking for men, as such it is a woman’s market. So the understanding that you are not going to be high on their priority list sets in. So you can either accept the reality and leave the site until you get stressed and find yourself joining again. Or accept that there will be numerous days that there will be no notifications, no flirts, no messages as you are not a prime candidate for a match and having fun. Once again I am at the point of realizing that no matter how funny, intelligent, sarcastic and good company I believe I am, that is not what people will see. They will see a married family man looking for discrete and drama free fun. Too many restrictions for a fun time for them. And that is ok. It is what it is. For those that I have chatted with and enjoyed the conversation I will still say hello. If I see your introduction quick look and IM and think that you are beautiful and interesting but I do not meet your requirements. I may still say hello and pay a compliment as everyone likes to know they are attractive. For those that are chatting and saying hello. Thank you for your time, I look forward to knowing more. So to summarize, the idea is that you see past the married and time restrictions and what to get to know me, the reality is that that is not going to happen. But once the work stress has gone I live in the reality and like that place. Hopefully some of this made sense, I just felt compelled to write tonight. Take care and all the very best with your search on here. |
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