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Blogs > LustyTaurus > A CrAZy CaNUcK...

Never say never, as they say...  

LustyTaurus 56M
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4/27/2009 9:22 pm

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7/5/2009 10:04 pm
Never say never, as they say...

Hey friends...it's been a series of weeks since the last post...weeks I wish never happened, weeks that have profoundly changed my priorities and outlook on life.

My Mom was diagnosed with cancer of the esophogus a couple months ago, and two weeks ago they had her in for surgury to try and remove it and hopefully the tumor. They decided on this course of action after both a CT scan and a PET scan had not revealed any other cancer.

When they went in, the surgeon found cells scattered throuout her abdomen, on the lining that encompasses all her internal organs, and they tested positive for cancer. The doctor said it was like someone had spread confetti in there.

The prognosis now is "many months" for my Mom as neither radiation or chemo therapy has been effective on this type of cancer. They now believe she has stomach cancer that grew to block the esophogus.

Never say never as they say, and we will continue to hope and pray for the best...for a miracle...60 is far too young for my Mom to leave us.

Besides regular life stuff, my time is being spent largely around a whole plethora of issues in the family around this news, extra time with my folks, making prparations for taking care of both of them during treatment etc.

Take care friends...and I'll see you when I can.

LT

PDnME 55M/52F
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4/28/2009 12:58 am

 LT I am very sorry to hear this news, I have lost my mother to cancer (breast, lungs and liver) I can relate to what you are going through. Enjoy every moment with her like its the last and if ever I believed in miracles I wish for one for you and your family.
These past few weeks I have been feeling depressed and upset I thank you for making me realize how small my issues are compared to yours. Our thoughts are with you at this time and hope for the best...


absolutelynormal 63F
6558 posts
4/28/2009 7:35 am

 (((((LT)))))


tazzerman2000 66M
18912 posts
4/28/2009 12:17 pm

 I'm sorry to hear this. You and your family are in my heart and prayers. Take care of yourself and try to smile every once and a while ok? -tm
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canyaz 56F
17128 posts
4/29/2009 11:51 am

 Strength to you and your family. It is never easy and the feeling of helplessness makes it worse. Spend as much time as you can, the kids too. Talk about everything you have ever wanted to talk about. To coin a song, live life she were dying. I have been there...hugs.
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goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
4/29/2009 1:25 pm

 You are right! Nothing is for sure.
Let's all hope for the best.


rm_aboutme66 59F
6046 posts
4/29/2009 5:43 pm

 Hugs and lots pf prayers for you and yours.
Donna
Someday is today.


PurplePeach72 51F
9194 posts
4/29/2009 7:10 pm

 Just know that we are here when you need us and are sending you lots of love!
Love,
LeeAnn
Kisses,
LA


notnicenaughty 74M
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5/1/2009 10:32 pm

 LT...if we all could only take this pain far away from your Mom, family and you it would be done. There are no age limits for pain & suffering..I lost 3 grandchildren (triplets) 3 to 6 months after their birth, my husband who was 46yrs. to a massive coronary and my Dad at 84yrs. to Alzheimers. From these experience I have learned to say I love you more and to take every opportunity to spend time and make memories with my many loves. It's what you do now that's important. I can pray for a miracle for your mom, but she sees her miracles in the eyes and hearts of those who she loves and that love her in return. I would rather pray for her not to have pain and remember all the joy in her years and continue to celebrate life and live till her time is at hand. May God bless and keep you in the palm of his hand
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AlienGlef 48M
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5/2/2009 4:29 pm

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moonfire2u 77F
2601 posts
5/3/2009 5:23 am

 I am truly sorry to hear this...you and your family will be in my thoughts...


willing2tryit42 47M
1141 posts
5/3/2009 4:28 pm

 ..... You and your family are in my prayers.


alex_200mm 64M
4963 posts
5/3/2009 8:56 pm

 Lusty,

as you say, never say never.

My thoughts are with you, and I hope that you make sure to take care of yourself as much as you help and take care of the other members of your family.

Alex


sexymermaid6956 70F
26383 posts
5/10/2009 6:26 pm

 wow my friend...proayers for your mom..yes 60 is way to young...same as my mother she was 65...missing her likehck this mothers day!!!

hugs for the days ahead !!!
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