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slim pickings this place........this bloody place!! as i sit here typing on what is probably my 6th long term profile on here spanning 12 years, im pondering what i have picked up over that time. apart from an ability to speed type with one hand and how not to go about the game that is FriendFinder-x. it really is one of the most interesting, frustrating, crazy, naughty, addictive, sad, lonely, sexy places on the web. it doesnt matter if you're a judge or a binman. a great leveler you might say. proof that under all the fancy clothes, makeup, fast cars, high paid jobs, low paid jobs, we're all just naked horny beings, floating on a rock in space trying to figure out who or what the fuck we are. i've used this place to get laid, to make friends, to eascape reality, to find people as lonely as i have been at times in my life. i use it to cam, to fantasise and to wank. this blog will be as honest as i dare to be. a part of my life that is secret, away from everything else, and you're the only people i want to share it with.  right, here we go.... 1. the of male profiles to womens profiles. this is by far the crazyest thing on here. i was taking to someone, a lady, who told me she had been told the ratio was 100 men to 1 woman. wow! probably even more now. this tells me that there must be a lot of really frustrated men out there. it also tells me that women, u poor monkeys, must get asked how they are or what are they up too literally 100s of times a day, im also guilty of starting a conversation with 'hey, hows it going? sorry girls. it never fucking works!! haha as a guy coming on here with expectations of finding loads of wild women all ready to jump into bed with you and live out your most erotic fantasises with, you will suddenly realise that after all the enitial bot attacks with likes and icebreakers, sudden friend requests from girls in kenya, views and likes of your most intimate pics, that this place wasnt quite what u were expecting. those likes dry up, the page visits get fewer and you're scratching your head. set out, drifting in the duldrums of inactivity. you browse profiles of women in your area, find some that you like, send out the '' hi, hows it going?'' messages and sit there with expectations of fantistical sex and horny chat with the woman of your choice and dreams. 1 minute goes by, 2, now you've been here half an hour. 3 hours later and alas you're next conquest has not even read your instant messanger message and the privet message you sent after spending 20 quid to view her in the first place has'nt been replied. from personal experience, in the early days, this was so frustrating, all u wana do is<b> get laid </font></b>right? how can it be this difficult? whats wrong with me? why why why,? simple answer to this is that the majority of woman on here get literally 1000s of messages from guys just like me and you! ok u might not have a baywatch body and a massive cock but that doesent mean the lady you're trying to woo isnt interested, shes just gotta sift through god knows what to finally get to your message. this takes ages and who the fuck wants to sit there spending hours reading mail on a sex site? shit, i feel like im coming across as a bit of a winger, yes its difficult to get anything you actually want on here but if you're not a dick about it, you,re creative with your hello messages and your patient. you will begin to meet people and find what you're looking for. im not guna lie, if you have a baywatch body and a 9 inch cock it can help on here but i think its more important not to be a dick. 2, Fakes: gerrrrr!!! this is the second most anoying thing about this place. the first being abusive guys treating women like shit. but generally anything fake on here is a pain in the butt. weathers its guys posing as girls, catfish, bots from cam sites, what ever. if you come on here you gotta have your witts about you. say you're a 50yo guy on here, avg looks etc etc...... u get a message from a 19yo size 6 bronze model saying how sexy you were and how big your cock looks. this could very well be a message from a genuine FriendFinder-x user but 9 times outta 10 its soome one trying to get you away from this site, onto another pay cam site or worse. these people are real bastards. the prey on the fact that your a horny guy, never taking into account troubles in your real life. all they want is your money, even going to the extreams of taking pictures of u while oin cam, finding u on social media and holding u hostage. it happens!! remember all you wanna do is get laid, have a wank or just chat. u didnt realise you needed a degree in forensic investigation or that to some people on here you're a food ticket! fair game some might say, you're on a sex site what do u expect? even the married guy on here deserves not to be ripped off! ok he might not be going about his life in the best way spending time on a sex site, hell he might even be cheating on his mrs but that doesnt mean he deserves to be a target. we're all vunerable on here, sharing our most intimate details, some saying this is the olny place where they can truley express them selves, having someone lie or try and rip u off is a reall shitty thing to do in my opinion. 3, women i would hate to be a woman on here! power to the ones that still put up with us horny guys and wade through the shit. , while alot of the guys are respectful and dont pester too much, from what i've been told some guys think that because this is a sex search website, all the women must be prostitutes. demanding and basically being total dicks that they wouldnt dream of being in the real world. on here a savy women has the power, and power to them. who the hell wants to sleep or chat with a rude, abusive, walking dick pic? its nice to be important but its more important to be nice  4. chat rooms places where conversation or chat is the last things that happen. in most rooms there are usually a core of members that do chat, breaking into these core's is not easy and u gota be a gernerally nice person to break in. these people have been on here years and know the score. i've been in a few groups over the years and have found lovely people that are real (wow) and made some good friends. they fade away after a while and people move on. to be continued poisitive things to follow 
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10/23/2018 8:35 am |
its like the wild west in here!! six shooters swapped for erections!! im not into bashing anyone, its tough in here but the fact that its not entirely safe and there is a risk element is quite aluring. still the main thing i have gathered as a guy in here is ......dont be a dick head! the ratio is so one sided but i kind of like it like that. some people find it imossible to deal with and watching guys throw pissy fits in the chat rooms are funny
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wow how cool nice stuff
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