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E112: Wednesday night – two more Subjects  

Clairew1959 64F
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10/25/2019 11:25 am
E112: Wednesday night – two more Subjects


When both Emma and Donald have strongly, she pulls him up into her arms. This is different for Donald too. He is the one who holds Emma in his arms. But Donald feels safe cuddling against Emma, his ass against her crotch; his back against her soft breasts; Emma kissing his neck and softly stroking his shaft and thighs is magical. He feels like her sweet pet being pampered his mistress.
After laying quietly like this for a few minutes, Emma tells him to continue with his next subject as she wants to know about all of them.
“Actually Subject D and Subject G were similar in what was needed and what was done, though each a bit different, that they seemed as one Subject later. It is the same with some of the other cases,” Donald begins.
Not all our subjects came from the mall surveys, they were a good source of finding individuals with unique desires and needs, but the institutes I worked at over the years were also well known, and people would contact us directly at times, or we would recruit in other ways.
The first I worked at while completing my masters was in the Sexual Studies Department at Cornell University. Then when I was at Dartmouth my advisor and mentor had me working at the original Institute for Sexual Exploration (ISE) in Hanover, New Hampshire. The success of its initial study (the mall surveys) led to the opening of other ISE centers around the country. As I mentioned, usually in less populated and more middle-of-America locations. I worked at the center in Syracuse, New York for six years; moved to open a center in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, and was there for seven years; then five years in Cincinnati, Ohio, at a new ISE there. Four years ago, after my mentor and founder of ISE died, I moved here to work at the Institute we had founded here.
I have been on the national board of ISE for almost twenty years, and I am the co-director at this site. Two years ago, when my third book, and the bestseller, was published, I agreed to teach classes at the university here in their sexual studies department. Already I am losing interest in teaching as it takes away from research and writing, but I will continue to do so for a while. Which is how the lecture came about which you attended.
Donald does not know why he feels compelled to tell Emma the whole outline of his past, but lying here, her holding him, feeling safe and secure in her arms it all just tumbles out of him. He knows this is not what Emma is waiting to hear, but he feels it so important for her to know how he has gotten to here, in her arms, now.
The stroking and slight squeezing of his shaft that Emma is administering as he talks lets him know that she is not upset with his slight diversion. Donald continues.
But I digress, it was while it Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania that Subject D was introduced to me. Subject G I encountered in Cincinnati, Ohio, about seven years later. Both were almost mirrored situations, at least how they began.
Subject D and G’s husbands approached the Institute seeking with their wives. Neither wife showed any real interest in sex, which ruined the whole experience for the husbands. The men both swore they loved their wives, and would not leave them, but the wives total disinterest in sex was becoming detrimental to their relationship.
On further interviews with the husbands, before even meeting the women, the similarity of the pattern of the two women became apparent. Their relationship with their husbands; how they had even expressed that they viewed sex as a ‘chore’ they had to do; and their habits of finding a way to avoid intimate situations.
Actually, I did, at times, wonder why I agreed to the second, Subject G, as when I started it seemed it was just a repeat of the previous couple. Though I thought to see the same situation with slightly different variables might offer an opportunity to gauge if there were differences in the results. Little did I realize the different dynamics which would come into play.
Both husbands described the situation from the start of their marriages as the women not being all that interested and acted like sex was a sacrifice they needed to complete. They would lift their nightgown and take their panties off, lay on their backs with legs spread waiting for their husbands just to stick it in and pump away. Any real foreplay was brushed aside, and their squirming and semi-shunning when the men would try even finger play made the husbands realize that to try to please orally would be a big mistake.
And the wives touching the penis or considering oral on their husbands were well out of the sphere of possibilities it seemed.
Interesting, both men described their wives as rather controlling and in , telling them how things should be done, managing almost all aspects of their lives. One couple (Subject G) was older, in their late fifties, with two grown sons, who the rather smothered even though they were married. The other couple (Subject D) had not had , the wife’s insistence, and were in their late thirties.
Each husband described as their ideal situation to strive for was a wife who was more subservient and open to enjoying sensual interactions. Someone not needing to be in complete control, who was more sexually awakened. They wanted their wives to be willing to explore new possibilities to them come to enjoy sexual relations with their spouses. Both men also mentioned they desired more displays of affection, kissing, hugging, holding, caressing – all things their wives did only to the minimum.
I sympathized with their situations but realized that not only would the women need to be trained and in a way ‘reprogramed,’ but the husbands would need to truly hone their<b> skills </font></b>to make their wives receptive to new and different things.
The men were assigned to colleagues to them learn how to properly finger and lick and suck a woman. They started first with a model of the female figure to learn each part and basic techniques. Then they spent hours with a female doll, which was very lifelike and programmed to respond when proper form was used.
These two couples were more or less happily married, so we did not do any physical interaction with them, rather we used tools, models, and dolls for them to practice and interact with. As the studies progressed we did take samples of each of their fluids for their spouse to taste and get used to. But I am getting ahead of myself.
The women came in for a set appointment, which their husbands had told them to attend. In the special waiting room set up for them, all of the printed materials around were magazines of erotic stories or illustrations. The television was showing a level interaction of a couple caressing and kissing, the first phase of foreplay.
It was interesting; both women picked up magazines to glance at, tossed them aside quickly when seeing the content, but after somewhat watching the program on TV, picked up a magazine again and began looking at it and reading some of it.
We left both in the waiting room for almost an hour to get fully absorbed into both the television show and the magazines’ offerings. Under observation, the whole time. When we saw them reach that rosy glow in the face and neck state they were asked to come back to the office.
I had female assistants meet with them first to explain what the institute was about and how their husbands had asked us to them. Both acted somewhat repelled at first, but the assistant assured them that things would be taken slow, and we would be trying to them to find more enjoyment in their intimate relationship with their husbands.
Through interviews and therapy sessions to start, we got to the root of both of their negative feelings about sex - mainly family influence and much misinformation about it being a wife’s duty, not to be enjoyed. Once we mastered that initial hurdle we began helping them to learn to bring themselves to a state of pleasure first. Watching through the one-way windows in the rooms and the tapes later it was very illuminating to see them being trained and trying to use a vibrator for the first time.
The woman began to enjoy herself rather quickly during this period. And seemed to begin to understand that sex was something to take pleasure in. The vibrators stimulating her clit and a dildo she pressed up in her brought her to a sexual state. She still had not allowed her to relax and release enough to experience her first orgasm, but she was getting close.
During this time, I was also meeting with the couple together, helping the husband to be more vocal in what he would like to have between them. We had them spend a night together under observation, and the woman did allow herself to be caressed, kissed and fingered her husband to reach a level of arousal, the first time ever with him.
I had told the husband not to press for her to complete the sex act the first night, but the woman got into such a frenzy she began to beg her husband to take her. When he entered her, unlike all the times in the past, she was wet, dripping, and well lubricated to enjoy the friction of him pressing in and out of her. After, he told us that her vag had begun to clench against his shaft and hold him tight on each inward thrust.
She had finally learned that sex could be fun and appreciated. But we were not done.
The assistants worked with her to gradually learn to stroke, jerk, and finally suck a cock using the model, and then the doll. They coached and assisted her in how to hold, squeeze, lick and take more and more of the cock into her mouth. It did take a lot of encouragement for her to get comfortable, and I do have to admit watching the sessions were amusing to see her develop her<b> skills.
</font></b>I should mention, the husband showed true skill in finger and tongue play of a woman’s wonder area. He was like a duck to water, quickly learning the exact spots to touch and lick to bring a woman the greatest joy. He had said that as they had married young, he had not had that much previous experience doing such things, but you could see the determination he had to make sure he could fully pleasure his wife.
Actually, watching his session helped me learn better techniques myself, become more aware of a woman’s reaction to different methods. I realize that before that time, while I prided myself thinking I been giving excellent to a woman - as many told me I did a good job - that perhaps most had been placating me.
Donald is somewhat amazed at himself from that last statement. Until this moment, he had never acknowledged he had not been that ‘great of a lover’ for many years when he was . Yes, woman had praised him, but just as women could orgasms to encourage their lovers, they probably did often laud mediocre performance.
He blushed deeply at this realization, which did not escape Emma’s notice.
“Donald, my pet, perhaps you were not the best early on, but from this subject and your continued learning and observations, the time you began helping me, you seem to have mastered the techniques rather well,” Emma tells him sincerely as she hugs him close.
This brings tears to Donald's eyes as he realizes that yes, he has been a rather vain and arrogant man throughout his life, but now with Emma things are becoming so different, and he feels more modest and humbler about things.
He goes on with this part of the story.
the time both had honed their skills, they were so ready to move to this higher plane. We had insisted that they do not try any of the new techniques they were practicing on each other until we told them they were ready.
Another night was scheduled. They met with me first to discuss what would happen that evening, and if both were ready for this step. It was fascinating how the wife’s demeanor had so changed. Rather than telling her husband what to do, expecting him to get her coffee or anything else she needed, she was now deferring to him.
She said she hoped she would be able to pleasure her husband how he deserved, no more talk about it being an obligation for her.
We watched their interaction in the room after the discussion.
The husband sat on the bed and beckoned her to come sit on his lap. She did without question. Their long and lingering kisses went on for over minutes, and her enthusiasm for kissing and licking his neck and ears seemed insatiable.
He moved his hand to unbutton her top and slide his hand into her bra to squeeze her boobs, and rather than slap him away, how he had stated she always did, she giggled and even purred as he caressed each breast. When he unhooked her bra and lifted it enough so he could pinch her nipples, she let out a satisfying moan.
I had encouraged him to take his time with her so as not to scare her, and his pace was perfect. As he slipped her top and bra off her, he kissed her lips and then ran his tongue down her chest to her tits. Cupping each breast, one at a time, he took her nipple in his mouth and sucked and sucked them while the wife just groaned with intense gratitude.
As he did, she fumbled to undo his shirt and push it off him, together they fell on the bed continuing to touch and lick each other’s upper bodies.
Then the husband made his move, he unzipped her pants, and slithered his hand down over her mons to her slit, which was already wet and waiting for him. Never had she been so ready for sexual play before. He kissed her deeply as his fingers played up and down the slit, rubbing and pinching her clit, then moving to press into her vag and find her g-spot. The wife was a raging bag of hormones then.
Her hands groped for his crotch and first rubbed up and down outside of his pants against his cock. His moan was loud and long, this was the first that she ever really even attempted to touch his prick.
When she scrambled to undo his pants to touch it in the flesh, he confessed later that he almost came for feeling her do that finally. But the night had just begun.
Both were soon undressed and groping with each other as they twisted and turned on the bed. And then, he maneuvered her to her back, spread her legs, and dipped his head down between her thighs.
Feeling his lips and tongue on her cunt for the first time released this primal growl from her. She came for the first time in her life. Visible shudders ran through her body as she arched up to him, and her whole body turned this shade of deep pink rose which was amazing to watch.
The husband slowed for a few minutes, just caressing her thighs and stomach as she composed herself, then went right back to it, bring her to a second orgasm in a half-hour.
The kisses she bestowed on him were deep and meaningful. She licked her juices from his lips and tongue, tasting herself for the first time. The husband was completely overwhelmed that she did this so willingly.
She reached her hand down and caressed his now very hard cock, playing with the glans and running her finger over the slit in it. She looked him deep into his eyes, shyly smiled and lowered herself to take him into her mouth for the first time.
The wife also had been learning her lessons rather well and did a nice job of taking first the glans in her mouth as she jerked his shaft, then licking up and down it before taking more and more of it in her mouth as she squeezed his balls.
The husband was out of his mind when she went even lower and took one ball after the other in her mouth to suck on to fill them with his sperm and semen in readiness. Then back to suck him deep into her mouth and throat. We had known the husband’s size, which was above average, so when the wife was being trained, we made sure we used phallic of the same size for her to become familiar with what she would need to take in.
She did an admirable job and barely choked as she sucked and sucked him. Even tasting his precum, which brought a smile to her face. We could have not asked for better results.
We could tell from the husband’s body language he was close to coming when he moved from her enough to kneel between her legs and lift her legs up over his shoulders. She squirmed with delight, looking at his cock hard and ready to enter her.
The husband told us later that moment was wonderful for him, seeing the pleasure on her face as she actually looked at his cock posed to fuck her. In the past, she had either looked only in his eyes or over his shoulder, never at his manhood, and usually just squeezed her eyes shut when he went to go into her.
He rubbed his glans up and down her now dripping pussy, wetting it and then pushing up into her as deep as he could. She let out a cry of approval. Her legs hugged his neck as she pressed up to take more and more of him in as far as he could go. His balls were beating against her ass crack.
They banged and banged, both panting hard as sweat covered their bodies, but neither wanted to tip the edge yet. As we watched, we were astonished how long they kept this ravishing of each other up.
Finally, they succumbed to their base instincts, and both quivering and crying out, we observed them cumming simultaneously. The long low groan which emitted from the husband said it all. Together they had fully released all that for years they held back and denied each other and themselves.
They fell together clinging and dropped into a deep sleep. We left the observation room then, but later, when we watched the tape of them through the night they consummated their new beginning four more times before dawn.
When they left, and even more when we had a couple follow-ups with them a week and a month later, the wife was very docile and compliant to her husband. He seems much more confident in himself, and both seemed finally very happy in their relationship.
At this point in Donald’s story, Emma pulls him to her and tells him to show her the techniques he learned from this husband, which polished his<b> skills. </font></b>Donald grins at her and begins first to move his fingers between her legs, pinching and separating her labia to enter into her wonderful, wet, waiting sex cavern. He fingers her properly until Emma herself is purring with delight, and then moves to provide lip .
First one, then the other, the labia are sucked on until they swell and are dark pink. Spreading them apart, Donald focuses on running his tongue from Emma’s asshole - after circling it a few times, to her clit, which he sucks and nibbles at. Back and forth he goes, with stopovers to enter her honey cave to enjoy the nectar dripping from its sides.
Emma just squirms and giggles as Donald proves that he had sharpened his abilities from when he was . She does always enjoy when Donald fingers and licks her. Even with no others to compare with, well except Sasha that is – and the one time with Connie, she knows Donald has expert technique which brings her to such a happy state.
After he helps her a couple of times, and seeing how late it is now getting, Emma pulls Donald into her arms again and says, “So that was Subject D, what was different with Subject G? Or was it the same outcome?”
“No,” Donald tells her, “It took a rather different turn in the end.”
Subject G started out much the same. As I mentioned they were older, so that factored into it some too. The wife, through the counseling, did come to realize that sex was not a negative thing, and after learning to pleasure herself with vibrators and dildos, she was rather eager to see where this could all go with her husband.
As I said, she was more or less the dominant one in the relationship, directing him in what to do and what she expected. He did bend to her will but was a bit of a blowhard himself. It was interesting how much confidence he had, especially when away from her.
When we began to train him in fingering and licking, he claimed he knew how to do it and felt he was rather good at it actually. I am not sure where he got this idea from, I guess long ago memories of women before his wife. How I mentioned the realization I had watching Husband D, when watching Husband G it was apparent that his<b> skills </font></b>were very unremarkable -to put it nicely.
The assistants tried to work with him, we even had him use a model which would give a slightly acid taste, like touching the head of a battery, if incorrectly licking. And a tiny jolt if touching wrong, but he just did not get it. He improved somewhat, but not that much.
The first night he and his wife were together at the institute, his fingering was probably not the best, but the wife had come to like the feel of a phallic up in her so pushed his hand aside, rubbed her clit to wet herself and pulled him to her to enter her. He was ecstatic that she actually touched his cock in her cardinal lust and want him to fuck her. He did not last that long, but she did moan a good bit.
In the follow-up session with me, she was even more dominant than usual and made him confess in front of me that he needed much more training to be able to pleasure her. His pompousness had left him, and he was now completely under her thumb with the dire need to learn the proper way to pleasure his mistress.
There must have been a long and detailed discussion between them after that first night as he was now totally under her spell and would do anything to make sure his queen was truly satisfied.
And strangely, he seemed happy in this position.
He did come regularly, every other day for proper training as to how to correctly touch and tongue a woman. He would spend hours going over and over each step, making sure he got positive feedback from the trainers and the dummies he practiced on.
Meanwhile, the wife did try to learn to suck cock with her trainer, and seemed to take to it rather well, though the trainers heard her mutter a few times that ‘He is going to have to really prove himself to earn this reward.’
Yes, it was clear that the center of power would not be shifting, but it seems that the regime in place, ever fuller now, was where this couple would be the happiest at.
The second night, the full night, they were to be together, during the counseling session with me prior, the wife was very clear about her expectations of her husband. He promised her he would do whatever she commanded of him.
In the room, as we watched, the wife made him strip completely for her as she sat on the bed. She made him come stand in front of her as she examined his cock and balls, and for that matter his whole body, fully for the first time. She pinched and flicked at his privates and ass as she watched him harden.
From the husband’s expressions, each touch from her, even those a bit painful, was pleasurable to him. Feeling her touch on him, even in this examining way. Precum began to drip from him. The wife wiped in up with her finger and told him he better contain himself until she was ready.
Then she lifted her fingers to his mouth and made him lick them clean. He sucked his cum from her fingers eagerly.
She then stood and told him to undress her. Which he carefully did, caressing her body in the process. It was only then that she kissed him for the first time. She was the one completely in control, but it was a deep and long kiss, so she had to have been satisfied with his performance so far.
The wife leaned back on the bed and told him to kneel between her legs and show him how he had improved with his fingering since the first time. We could see him tremble as he began. He kept asking her if she liked it? Was he touching her in the correct way? She did tell him when he needed to shift a little.
After several minutes of this and seeing the wife begin to flush, she put her hands on each side of his head and pulled him to her crotch, telling him to show her what he had learned. He kissed her thighs before spreading her labia and beginning for the first time to eat and lick his wife. He started slowly to be sure he was doing it correctly but then began to speed up as he heard her sigh and thrash some.
She told him not to stop, keep going, and with a roar, she came for the first time in her life. We could see that she loved it. Postmenopausal she finally discovered what she had been missing all these years. And she was not going to stop.
She made her husband finger and suck her for the next hour as she came two more times. Only then she told him to stand as she sat up. In front of her with a semi-hard cock, she took pity on him and began to jerk him. When he again began to have some precum she slapped each of his balls, making him cringe as she told him he needed to control himself until she gave him permission.
Watching this scene of a newly emerged femdom and her willing slave was enlightening. I had observed some female doms with their subs before, but not the natural beginning of such a relationship. Yes, she had the run things in their marriage, but this was taking it now to a whole new level. And the husband seemed to be lapping it up like a good pet.
When she leaned and took his glans into her mouth to suck him his body trembled, and I worried he was going to shoot his load and bring her wrath down on him, but he kept himself at bay and just had a grin of delight on his face as his mistress favored him with such a treat.
It did not take long, and he was hard. The wife told him he now needed to show her how he could serve her properly. She spread her legs, and he came between them. She even guided him into her vag. Totally and completely in control.
As he pumped into her, again and again, she held his balls, squeezing them over and over. And then, to our surprise, her fingers moved to his asshole and began to rim and press into him. He shouted out in a mixture of shock and glee.
He was a in heat at that moment, and he begged her to allow him to as he could not restrain himself much more. As we could see her coloring she was on the brink now herself, she pressed her finger up in his ass more and told him to yes, , and make her do the same.
From the quaking of his body and the arching of her back, we could tell that he was exploding up in her, and she was milking him dry with the sides of her cunt against his shaft.
This final release for them both lasted several minutes until he fell against her body, and she wrapped him in her arms kissing his head and stroking his back.
We left them then. When we watched the tape of the rest of the night, they mainly slept, him in her arms, protected his mistress. In the early morning, she had him up and between her legs, licking her to a couple more climaxes.
She told him when she was sated that if he kept pleasing her in this manner, he would be allowed to fuck her from time to time. He readily agreed to whatever terms she set.
During the two follow-up sessions he was so catering to her every need, she talked mainly for them both, though would at times have him tell me how he felt about their life now. He was extremely happy, and when I asked if this was his preference over what he originally wanted, he gushed, saying it was more than he could ever dream of.
I did learn that he pleasured her multiple times most days, and she did allow him to fuck her at least once a day unless she was displeased with him about something. It seemed that he was her servant in more than just a sexual way too. He had retired and now was responsible for all the housework during the day, waiting on her hand and foot. And he reveled in this role.
He confided that she did regularly suck his cock too when he was in her good graces, and he had even submitted to wearing a cock cage when they would go out. He said he would do anything she wished him to do, and he realized he liked her taking the lead in things for them.
So as I said, while the two couples turned out differently, both found a satisfactory space for them to enjoy their marriages fully.
Emma has been stroking Donald’s cock as he finishes his story, and he is rather hard now. She whispers in his ear, “Do you think you have been my good pet today that you might be rewarded yourself?”
Donald flips to face her and says in such a humble voice it is almost foreign to Emma, “Mistress, I would enjoy that very much, but it is your decision if I have earned such pleasure or not.”
Emma laughs and kisses him, “Stand then, we will do it the same way.”
Donald quickly is on his feet, facing Emma sitting on the bed. She takes his cock and pulls him to her. She runs her tongue up and down and around his shaft and balls teasing him before taking his glans into her mouth.
She licks around the glans head and back and forth over the slit before nibbling at the ridge just below the glans, which drives Donald wild. Then she takes more and more of him in her mouth to suck as she strums on his balls.
Donald always loves Emma sucking him, but tonight, as her pet who she is giving a treat to, it is even more intense. When Emma leans back and pulls him between her legs he is ready to enter her and make his mistress happy.
He bangs and humps her for all he is worth. Deep in her to make her moan, then back almost out of her to thrust in again hard over and over. She is soon holding him is a vag grip on each inward push. He holds in place until the wave passes over her and allows him to continue to stork her. It is hot and passionate as the flames flying between them.
Donald wants it to last and last, but the craving between them is too much to sustain for long. Together they reach the peak, leaning and kissing deeply they fall over the abyss, cumming together in moans coming from deep in their throats as the waves crash over them.
Both exhausted now, it has been a long and full day, and now late, Donald falls back into Emma’s welcoming arms and presses against her sighing contently.
The last thing he hears as he falls into a deep sleep is Emma pondering, “Humm, a cock cage, eh?”

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