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First month on aff, advice for newcomers that are male standard members  

Dtromb1547 51M
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10/25/2018 8:06 am

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10/25/2018 6:05 pm
First month on aff, advice for newcomers that are male standard members

Ok so a standard member which sux ass. I can't upgrade to gold at this point since on a relatively fixed income. As a standard member it's all about points. Do everything you can to earn points. You can then redeem those points to do certain things. Don't spend your 100 points to be able to view profiles because that's all you can do, view them. You can't see their photos or videos and can't message them other than .

You get three free IMs a day. They say this is so gold members can talk to more people...I say it's because they are cheap fucks and just making excuses.

Now with the IM feature you can also spend 10 points to talk to people after your 3 free a day IMs are used.

Now guys be smart with your IMs...seriously. if you are looking for women or couples don't think just because they are close to you, that they will even respond. When you send an IM it will tell you whether it's been read or not. I've found, by my experiences as well as talking to other standard male members, that about 90 percent of people you contact either don't respond or ignore you, or if they are standard member they just don't want to waste the points to respond.

Your profile says a lot about who you are. Be creative. But be true to yourself. Don't change who you are just to get people interested..if they aren't interested then just get used to it.

Don't get discouraged..when you finally do connect with someone don't lose your shit and Chase them away. Have a conversation and see where that leads.

False profiles. False profiles are easy to spot. Normally they are the hottest model type women you've ever seen. They are always from someplace not even near you and their profile talks all about how great their life is and that they are looking for love...blah blah blah blah. It's obvious...eventually it will become easier to spot. Also avoid people who want you to respond to Gmail, Hotmail or any other mail service. They willl flood your mail app with spam.

Try other things. Try blogging and posting to groups and joining multiple groups. Yeah in most of the groups the amount of men heavily outweigh the amount of women. But get yourself out there. Trust me it helps.

Finally understand that a lot of people are on here looking for a lot of things but may not be ready to do them. It's ok. Don't get discouraged. It's always good to meet them in a public setting first. Have a drink or a coffee and talk and make sure the chemistry is there. You don't someone just coming to your place or you to theirs and find out neither of you is interested.

PS. To the women on here that are looking for a soulmate, marriage, a serious commitment, or love. Be<b> realistic. </font></b>You joined a site that is for people to meet and either cam, talk about sex, meet for sex or just make friends. It really isn't about looking for love. If you do find it, then more power to you. But honestly you should try something else. Again, just my opinion.
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