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First month on aff woes  

Dtromb1547 51M
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10/27/2018 11:40 am
First month on aff woes

Guys don't you just get let down when you constantly look for someone and come up with nothing? It really doesn't matter how many times you change your profile, you just can't seem to attract the person you want.

I don't believe I'm an ugly guy, I feel I am handsome and I know this because I have attracted women in the past. I am very charming so that helps. In all honesty it's very difficult though finding someone on here if you are just a standard member. Though I will say FriendFinder-x does offer more abilities to find someone than so many other worthless sites.

In the last month I've viewed 400+ profiles, well not viewed in entirety just what comes up on IM. I think I've had only 53 people view mine. I'm no chiseled Adonis with 6 pack and muscles. I am a big tall man, I'm on a weight watchers diet since October 3rd and have dropped 28 pounds.

Chemistry and attraction must be there, I totally get that it's just frustrating when people don't give you the time of day because you aren't what they want physically, especially when it's big women. I love big women, I adore them. But so many of them seem to pass me up because they want a fit guy. And the sad truth to that is, most fit guys pass them over. It's a viscious cycle.

Also I have talked to about 20+ women on IM. However im not sure if they are men pretending to be women or just women looking to get off. In my experience about 90 percent of women I've ever met online aren't into<b> cyber sex. </font></b>Believe me neither am I. But a lot of the profiles that say they are women, immediately want dick pics, talk about sex and then disappear. This leads me to think it's a man, because that's how men act.

So from now on I'm having a new rule... I will talk to people on IM, but if they ask for dick pics I will tell them to look at my profile or talk over another means like or text by phone.

Anyways that's my rant for the day. Maybe if you are a guy having similar issues, this might help.
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