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Don't be a Cunt...It'll save you some stress! :D
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Don't be a Cunt...It'll save you some stress! :D I find myself writing these quite often, though I must say I’ll probably burn myself out and you won’t hear from me for several weeks, for that I apologize. But for now, I write, and I move forward to share with you my thoughts. It’s strange as I’ve perused profiles, blogs, and statues on here, I find most people to be quite honest about they want, and they’re out there yearning for. But one of the primary concerns, and I know I’ve said this before but it bears repeating because it seems to be a very deep crack that’s riddled right through the center of this place, ** IF YOU’RE TALKING TO SOMEONE, YOU DON’T NEED TO BE A CUNT TO GET THEIR ATTENTION** This applies to both men and women, and mind you I’m mostly referring to men, but there are some very virile ladies out there. Meow….Pussycat… Heyo! It seems like magic, and honestly, I get the wanting to fight for someone’s attention, really, honestly, I do. But we’re not toddlers, and this isn’t high school, we’re not having backroom make-out sessions unless you're into that, in that case, I’ll meet you under the bleachers, I’ll be wearing the yellow polka dot pants suit,  Sometimes the reason we stop talking to someone isn’t entirely clear, or we get mixed messages. What we need to understand up front is, if you’ve managed to acquire the attention of another person, sometimes things aren’t so cut and dry, black and white. Life is a shit color of gray, Folks. A dismal gray, and it’s okay, a lot of beautiful things are gray. Sometimes people stop talking to us for a large variety of reasons at any given time, could be as simple as they’re busy, they’re receiving a lot of messages, or even life got in the way. I miss your face.. But our minds always perceive the worst, and that’s simply not always the case, but yes sometimes it was something you said or the way you look, or perhaps even your dick size, (YES, IRENE MY DICK ISN’T THAT BIG, THANK YOU FOR TELLING ME SOMETHING I ALREADY KNOW  ) Or, sometimes it’s something you did, something you regret that hurt someone very deeply, we can’t always make up for these things, only move forward, and try to do better in the future. We can’t be that perfect person for everyone, you can only be yourself. And if you’ve been reading my blog you’ll know that I, myself have struggled very deeply with things in the past, even now. I have a very candid love affair with my own mortality, my anger is something that I have struggled with for a very long time, being a man, I find myself acting like an animal, though less now as you get older you find ways to control yourself. But still that feral nature is still part of us, and I get if someone stops talking to you, it fucking hurts. Especially if you were into them, like I said, sometimes life isn’t so easy. This is the unfortunate part of these things that we all have to deal with, sometimes feelings, and raw emotion does come with sex, and you can feel very neglected, almost forgotten. I think that sometimes that’s why I write, so I won’t be forgotten. But it’s okay my dear friends, it’s okay to stop talking to people, that’s just how life is. Do you talk to all of your exs? No? Why not? There is a variety of reasons for this, the sex was bad, they were abusive, I was a fucking asshole I’m sorry. The list goes on and on, but the thing we have to remember from this is the most valuable<b> lesson </font></b>that life can teach us, and that’s humility. For those of you who are reading this, who have been abused, hit or beat on, I’m sorry, this doesn’t necessarily apply to you. But as any woman, or even a man, yes men can be abused as well, it does happen, and no I won’t discuss it with you, will tell you, there is a valuable<b> lesson </font></b>there too. You learn to be wiser, you learn to see who will treat you better, and find out things about yourself that you want, things that you need. So I guess what I’m trying to say is that if someone stops talking to you, it’s okay to walk away. If they want you, they will come to you, I promise, and what we have to remember is it’s not always us, and it’s okay. You don’t have to send that eighth or ninth text to get someone’s attention if they're busy and want to chat with you, they’ll find you. But this always goes for people out there who are being harassed right now, and if you find yourself reading my words, I want you to know that I love you and that your tears are natural, its very much okay, you have friends and family you didn’t know you had. Christ, tearing up a bit as I write this. I want you to know that I love you, and it’s okay to let someone go. You see that block button, you hit that sweetheart, you let that anger go, don’t let is feed on you. You’re better than this, the worst, and the best way to get back at someone is to show them you don’t need them, to show them you can survive without them. I want you to know, you have the strength that can move mountains, you only have to try and make the first step, I promise you’re going to be okay. As we’ve reached the end of our venture for the night, and you find yourself still reading this, I want you to know, as always, that I love you. And That, things will get better. Goodnight.. P.S. - I painted this  |
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