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The Instant Messagner silence  

tiredkitty 43F
184 posts
12/6/2018 3:20 pm
The Instant Messagner silence


We all know the instant messenger messes up. It doesn't send messages it stop responding, it cancels picture up loads. And if you're using your phone on these things get hit times 10. But that not really the point to this blog post.

I'm here to talk and point out that I miss 90% of instant messages sent to me on here. Either I'm looking at something else or the person closes the message down before I notice. Or I'm just not here. It's true I'm not here. I often leave the site open on my computer and wonder away for hours at a time. I'm a busy woman I don't just have the endless about of time to sit here and indulge you foolish boys. I'm moving and doing things I need too. So to all of you people who message and then close it before I respond. I was not really ignoring you I most likely never seen your message. I wonder my life doing all that is required with periodic checks on whom and why I received a message. I'm sure I'm not the only one who has this. The Best bet is to take a minute and send me an email on here. I know what a bother.
While I do enjoy having quick easy conversations with people through the IM on here, I like the log I can reference when the email is used. I also advise you to put more than a simple hello or a short complement in the email. Though I like being praised it's often not enough to get me to be interested in replying.

Yep sending an email may be more effort but remember this is for a chance to touch my body all the ways you hope for. You should put forth more effort than " hey sexy."

I know this is all new trying things that might really<b> get laid </font></b>on a "fuck site" but you know it might just land you a higher chance for entering my bed.
For you free members who are unable to use the email I strongly advise you to either leave the chat box up until you log out or try back until you catch me. Or not it's really on you

Whosdieratgma 42M
15 posts
12/22/2018 12:25 pm

What about replying to your blog for free members? I've messaged you on IM and leave the screen up but it often kicks me out anyway. Well I'm available for anyway to communicate but currently stuck with blogs/groups and IM unfortunately only 3 starts each day. I think you're sexy and would love to hear from you but I cannot even see your profile to verify I match your likes. I'll keep reading though your blog. Have a good day.


CuriousCpl6774 56M/50F  
183 posts
12/10/2018 3:45 pm

Well said. That should be encouragement enough for the people interested in connecting with you. We’ll leave an IM message up for about 5 minutes, and if we don’t get a response, we figure she’s busy and try again later. Or, if we see our IM has been read, and we don’t get a response, we figure she’s just not interested.

If we like a lady’s profile enough, we do exactly as you suggest, and follow up with an actual nice introductory message. We also like being able to reference older messages. Sometimes the IM tool (especially on the phone) deletes half or our entire conversation.

We sincerely hope that messages turn into a lot of touching of your beautiful body!

Have a great evening!


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