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My Wife- This has come up  

katjezebel 46F
10 posts
1/26/2019 8:57 pm
My Wife- This has come up

Ok. so one of the things that comes up when I am chatting with people is that I have a wife.

I identify as single, as my wife of 20 years *yes, been together sine I was in my teens) decided that she no longer wanted to have sex. For me, that means the relationship is over.

However, my wife is an artist, and depends upon me for financial support, insurance, etc.

So....yeah. We remain together, but I identify as single. We live to together, and I support her financially and practically. I have her support in seeking sexual and emotional fulfillment. Provided that the people I am involved with accept that I have a wife, and do not tr to alter that reality. She also prefers that I have more than one female partner.

I think this is her way of trying to prevent me from falling head over heels in love with another woman.

That said, I am available. I have given my wife a boundary in that I will continue to support her as long as she supports my needs being fulfilled. The second she stands between me and what I need to be healthy in my life, I will terminate the relationship. I care about her. I support her.

And she will want to meet anyone that I am fucking. It is your choice, but honestly? I kinda get a kick out of watching her try to decide whether to make friends or to indulge her jealousy.

And yes, I provide goodies to those who put up with her bullshit. She's a good person, but drama much? lol!

pervington 40M
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1/26/2019 9:02 pm

 Totally agree. Good for you.


bigdongerforu 52M

1/26/2019 9:27 pm

 nice big boobs


MAherne83 55M

1/26/2019 9:31 pm

 Interesting situation. I respect that the two of you are trying to be honest with on another!


Neverthis 45M
3 posts
1/26/2019 9:37 pm

 Very interesting story.


Italiancalidude 51M
331 posts
1/26/2019 10:53 pm

 I wish you all the best, will be interesting no doubt.
I am a lover of positive energy. Fun happens when positivity pops!


katjezebel replies on 1/26/2019 11:47 pm:
mmmm, yes, interesting. Nothing like watching a woman in her 40's try to decide what she things of a woman in her 20's that her partner is banging. hot hot HOT.

I am enjoying every slippery second of it!

Am I an asshole? Probably. But y'know, I provide support for the woman who needs it and sex for the woman who wants it...why can't I be happy in the middle? Well, ok. I am happy in the middle, why is everyone upset that I am happy in the middle?!?

curiousone20144 49M
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1/26/2019 11:50 pm

 Can relate good for you.


luv2suk1966 63M/57F
1927 posts
1/27/2019 4:11 am

 Different strokes for different folks. If it works for you, why not?
I am confused with your profile - Pic of boobs, says Female, 41. But this is the male? Change it, Dear, or you won't get any action here.
Have a great day, and be nice to one another.


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