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Happy New Year 2019 and Guess What ?  

poolsider63 69M
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1/1/2019 12:17 am
Happy New Year 2019 and Guess What ?

I just returned from the local neighborhood bar to celebrate the New Year.

I am an alcoholic in recovery. It was amazingly easy to not have to drink. I had to ask myself after all these years why that was so?

I figured it out. I am mature - some would call old man - but I sure as hell don't see myself that way.

I would have in the day consumed some alcohol to "decrease my inhibitions" or make me more at ease with myself - you know - more confident with the ladies.

It is so fucking cool that I can be totally at ease with myself. I had a great time flirting with a young woman that was only 21. I saw myself flirting with her - not to get in her pants, but to genuinely build her self confidence. Why on Earth would I be so bold as to assume she might need to have her self confidence boosted?

She was an extremely pretty young woman. My God only 21. She was what most would politely call having a few extra pounds. If there is ANYTHING that I have learned in my 64 years it is this - women way way over think their weight and how it may or may not attract men.

Men on the other hand way way over think the size of their dick and how it may or may or may not attract women. The big difference, of course, is that the size of a man's dick is hidden - while the size of a woman's ass or<b> tummy </font></b>- is out there for all to see.

The bottom line to this is - that while I was way way too old to approach her for any kind of romantic, sensual, sexual content, I was not too old to boost her self confidence.

Because, as I told her, she was the prettiest girl in the bar, and because she was genuinely having fun, she was also the most attractive woman in the bar, irrespective of age.

And honestly, being able to see that look of "well thank you" was very rewarding to me. Her boost in self-confidence was obvious. I was pretty pleased with myself actually.

I guess because, I too was genuine, knowing that I didn't need to get my dick wet with her, helped me - well be me.

I am pretty simple. I love women, but also absolutely love being a man.

Am I that much of an absolute alpha dominates all he perceives - probably not.

But am I am the man that will act like a man and not a thug? Yes, I am.

You don't have to guess with me. I will protect you. I will cherish you. I will love you with all my heart.

I will not let you control me, or try to change me into what you think a man should be.

Because I am the man that women really wish they had.

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