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love and more about life 2
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love and more about life 2 I am glad that you are interested in me. I would like to explain at once to you why I am lonely and why I look for the man now. I will tell that I think of loneliness. In the last letter I told you that I love the nature. People are born uniform with the nature. Being outdoors, we feel well. We feel tranquility. Feelings of alarm and melancholy fade into the<b> background. </font></b>But over time at people identity develops. People move away by nature. Then people feel alienation from the world. So people become lonely. The loneliness causes alarm, shame and sense of guilt. People try to go out of prison of the loneliness. They try to find unity with the world around. People try to fill emptiness in the soul. The man and the woman are created to supplement each other. Men have important qualities which women do not have. And vice versa. Together they as a unit. Men and women look for understanding. Look for common interests. It we unite them, and relieves of loneliness. Love this best cure for loneliness. The love - destroys the walls separating lonely people from other world. The love overcomes feeling of isolation. The love is a strong, instinctive feeling. It is the reasonable choice, the strong-willed decision and the promise. Only through love we learn other person, without destroying him. But there are many false ways. Alcohol, drugs, chaotic sex. All this does not relieve of loneliness. It creates only temporary and false feeling. Sooner or later illusion disappears. I understand it and I always choose only the correct way. It is difficult to receive the real unity. The unity arises at the spiritual level. Only in true love there is a feeling unity. This feeling has to arise in itself. It does not need to be expected. It not that feeling which we want to receive to achieve the objectives. Each person has a will. It is impossible to try to control or change the person. We are not who still can be brought up. The love is learned through feelings, but not through thoughts. Only through love we completely overcome loneliness. Only through love we merge with each other and with world around. What do you think of it? You share my views? We are adults and we already know that it is necessary for us. I went a long way to come to understanding of it. I had a family and . I was married, but I made a mistake in youth. I lived in illusions, and I was mistaken in the person. I thought up love which was not. We did not understand each other. We lived together only for the sake of My ex-husband was an egoist, he always thought only of himself (we divorced 15 years ago, but 5 years ago he died of an illness). suffered from it. I have a (20 years) and the (26 years). Now adults and they have them the life. I live alone. My lives separately, she works as the nurse. She visits me on the weekend. My lives in other city. It seldom comes, it has the family and the . Yes I have a grandson, but I seldom see him. My independent. Now in Ukraine difficult life, but we cope so far. You have ? What can you tell about the last relations? I wait for your answer.  |
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