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Respecting your search  

Sexipus 57F
6 posts
12/26/2018 9:53 pm
Respecting your search
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69forenow 55M
41 posts
12/27/2018 6:34 am

 Good blog. I've been thrust upon when I felt no attraction. In general, men are physically stronger and I've always pulled away. The attraction, and desire, must be two-sided. I've also had plenty of meetings where we both walk away, disappointed but secure.


Sexipus replies on 12/31/2018 10:14 am:
Hello and thank you. Yes, I have heard stories of the aggressive women, here as well. It is better to walk away.

astute2r3 68M

12/27/2018 12:28 pm

 Having two daughters, I would never advise any female / woman to ever let down her guard. Taking the time to do some discovery is paramount. I have always expressed be safe, be careful, give only an inch so to speak and if that inch is cared for and treated with respect, give another and evaluate each as you give and go forward and or stop!. Yes, men are different then women, however, even some of the negative traits exhibited by some men, (not all men) can also be found within some women. Never physically place yourself in a position where you do not have safe access and an ability to depart, escape and be free. Have meetings in a open space with lots of others around. Be Safe!


Sexipus replies on 12/31/2018 10:17 am:
Indeed, I take responsibility for my ignorance to continue with the date, when my first reaction was to walk away. I was actually drugged. Not a good feeling.

ready4u3483 64M
2 posts
12/27/2018 1:31 pm

 Sorry for your bad experiences, but please do not let that make you label all men. Meeting from this site unfortunately comes with sexual expectations for many men. Ladies be aware and look for all signs to help you keep yourselves safe. If we were to meet you would be treated with respect as I want you to treat me. I think gentlemen always show themselves so be careful with who you choose


Sexipus replies on 12/31/2018 10:20 am:
Hello, I would never label ALL, however, I will pay close attention to the signs.

Smokey15dz 70M

1/15/2019 1:19 pm

 Truly sorry for your pain. Never a reason for anyone to abuse anyone. Never.


hawgridah9 67M

1/16/2019 4:26 am

 I guess I'm old school! I was raised to respect women and always be a gentleman! I consider a woman who chooses to share herself with me as a precious gift to be cherished. It's a shame that men like myself have to share this world with such animals and predators!


Love_My_Toys 59M
848 posts
9/16/2019 11:31 am

 Wow, that's scary. Sorry you had to endure that. Wish I had some advice, other than follow your gut instinct, it's usually right. Good luck!


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