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The matter of honesty ...  

starstorm1959 65F
23 posts
2/8/2019 3:02 pm
The matter of honesty ...


Three times. THREE. That's how many times in one month I've found out that an FriendFinder-x friend is either A) married, when he said he was<b> divorced </font></b>or B ) supposedly in an open marriage when his wife is actually oblivious to his playing around. I had been sleeping with one of these guys for quite a while. I felt pretty betrayed because he was a friend – I thought. But, what REALLY makes me feel bad are the women – I can't imagine being lied to like that.

Here's what I want to tell these guys: I GET that there are a lot of horrible wives and I GET that things can be far from OK in a marriage, but for God's sake, man up and DO something: Get her to agree to an open marriage ... as best friends or ships that pass in the night, whatever fits; or, TELL her what your feeling and TRY to work it out; or, LEAVE. Seriously. The 'll probably be relieved because guess what? They already KNOW you can't stand each other! Just don't lie to everyone involved!

Psychopathy. It is a biological brain defect that results in the complete absence of a conscience and complete inability to feel compassion, shame, love, or even hate. There ARE no emotions; just a need to self-satisfy. What's unnerving is that quite a few of these guys are psychopaths. Caution, girlfriends, CAUTION!

To my friends who ARE honest and authentic men, THANK you! I appreciate you so much and enjoy every moment with you! You are the salt of my world and the sugar on my lips ... Muwah!


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 3:07 pm

And, if anyone can tell me how to show this in forums, I'd love to hear!


92camaro66 57M
1753 posts
2/8/2019 3:23 pm

wait till you show up for a meet and they look NOTHING like in their pics.....OMG i had to walk away one time and felt horrible.....but you deceived me. women do it too.
maybe create a forum post copy and save this and then try to post it....you may have to type it all gain but it is a damn worthy statement and post


sweetyman3434 57M

2/8/2019 3:25 pm

xxxxxxxxxxxx


bitchkitty2017 71F

2/8/2019 3:41 pm

    Quoting  :

I agree with this comment and if married couples would practice more in the communication dept there would be more understanding between the two about knowing when its time to get a line of communication going, sadly most couples stop talking ...


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 3:49 pm

    Quoting 92camaro66:
    wait till you show up for a meet and they look NOTHING like in their pics.....OMG i had to walk away one time and felt horrible.....but you deceived me. women do it too.
    maybe create a forum post copy and save this and then try to post it....you may have to type it all gain but it is a damn worthy statement and post
, OMG! So far, that hasn't happened and yeah I'd feel bad, too, BUT ... alot of attraction is about looks, right? Oh, believe me, I KNOW the women do it too - I hear ALLLLL about it from my friends. Well, thanks for the vote of confidence and advice!


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 3:51 pm

Thanks, Sweety! Hugs back!!


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 3:59 pm

    Quoting  :

Granny, you're probably right. Pretty sad all the way around ...


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 4:01 pm

    Quoting bitchkitty2017:
    I agree with this comment and if married couples would practice more in the communication dept there would be more understanding between the two about knowing when its time to get a line of communication going, sadly most couples stop talking ...
Kitty, true. Communication is HUGE!


Loslobo264 63M
1 post
2/8/2019 4:30 pm

well said.


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 6:31 pm

Thank you, Loslobo!


lonlyforlove2 81M  
32704 posts
2/8/2019 8:03 pm

Young Lady, We see it also from the other side, well said, kudos to you..

Stop by at lonlyforlove2
also see Lunch with Lonly , we get snow tomorrow
Check my blog on New Community, "A photo of my big Pecker"
also, " My Sunday afternoon with the kids'


starstorm1959 65F

2/8/2019 10:00 pm

    Quoting lonlyforlove2:
    Young Lady, We see it also from the other side, well said, kudos to you..
Lonlyforlove, I KNOW you do. Well, cheers, hon, because authentic and principled men and women DO exist!


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
2/9/2019 5:56 am

Three times.. Men.. Go figure... 🤔
Yep. I'd be ticked if that happened to me.
I imagine fear and your theory about personality disorders are popular reasons.... 😱
Good luck.... I'm sure you deserve it! 😍👌


starstorm1959 65F

2/9/2019 7:40 am

    Quoting Paulxx001:
    Three times.. Men.. Go figure... 🤔
    Yep. I'd be ticked if that happened to me.
    I imagine fear and your theory about personality disorders are popular reasons.... 😱
    Good luck.... I'm sure you deserve it! 😍👌
Thanks, Paul!


curiousone20144 49M
21 posts
2/16/2019 10:37 pm

Best of luck finding a true friend!


starstorm1959 65F

2/17/2019 6:55 am

Thank you, Curious!


leather63 60M
816 posts
3/1/2019 9:22 am

Well stated your vebral accumen might not be misunderstood by the average FriendFinder-x member but i think you hit it right on the spot! I might add you are an incredibly beautiful woman in a most understated way, with a mind best of the best for ladies! Hope we can become friends!


starstorm1959 65F

3/1/2019 4:41 pm

    Quoting leather63:
    Well stated your vebral accumen might not be misunderstood by the average FriendFinder-x member but i think you hit it right on the spot! I might add you are an incredibly beautiful woman in a most understated way, with a mind best of the best for ladies! Hope we can become friends!
Well, thank you, leather63! I believe that's very possible - let's chat!


starstorm1959 65F

4/9/2019 1:59 pm

Thank you, Buddieboy!


hungsailorman69 85M
67 posts
6/21/2019 1:17 pm

I agree with you, there are a lot of fakes out there, women too, I always go through the meet though, just being polite. the ones that clicked turned out wonderful. Jim


starstorm1959 65F

6/22/2019 7:03 am

Yes, me too. Thanks, Jim!


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