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How do we protect ourselves?
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How do we protect ourselves? Once again I need to ask the blogging world, what is up with all the married men on this site. I try to avoid the IM since you really don't get a chance to know anything about the other person on such short notice. I don't want to get into a conversation with someone who is attached. I know there are reasons for them to be here and that's ok. What do other people do when they chat with someone? Do you ask right up front if they're married or attached? I'm not a prude but I don't want to waste anyone's time or have mine<b> wasted. </font></b>To find out someone you might like to meet is attached is one of the biggest turnoffs I know. |
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4/8/2019 9:53 am |
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My profile reads 'divorced', but I still get asked the question. I don't mind answering it. It's more important when that person's profile has : no pictures, the profile is barely filled out and it looks suspicious. If you see red flags.... ask. What's the worst that can happen? The guy gets pissed off? No loss.... NEXT I don't have the time or patience to play games. Do you? 😊😘 ... is there another way to look at it Going Too Fucking Far NEW Blog Features RevealeD O O A Foolproof Method Posted Over on that NEW site O O
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Married men come in all forms on here: Those that say they are married, are part of a couple and play with permission of their partner [a minority], those that are part of a couple and play without permission [an alarming high %}, those that are married and try to pass themselves off as single [see previous bracket], and those that are married and try to pass themselves off as a woman [more than you think]. A good rule of thumb is to always ask the married question very early on, and a few other carefully chosen ones and then trust your gut. As Paul said, a sparse profile, no pics or just a dick pic lol, evasive answers to your questions, and if you can, have a look at his friends list …. if it is in the high 100s or in the 1000s, he is probably fishing with dynamite. If they hesitate to answer your questions, ask yourself, what are they trying to hide? When in doubt, try asking some of the other women in the area to see if they know the person as word gets around about the game-players. Best of luck. Drop in and visit my blog sometime, but you'll probably regret it 
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I"m glad you asked the question, because as a single guy I'm still trying to figure out this site! lol
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A lot of women make the mistake of continuing a conversation with someone they've already said they weren't interested in. That can definitely protect yourself from wasting time as well as a rude personal attack for rejection. Some married guys don't see any correlation between lies by omission or out right lying. I would say maybe if they don't show their face.No wait, no one does.I guess we're back to square one! Using more than all the road!
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, what is up with all the married men on this site. ... Apparently their married lives suck. No real surprise today. I don't want to get into a conversation with someone who is attached.... Why? What possible harm could a conversation , with an attached person, have on you? What do other people do when they chat with someone?.... "Chat", and arrange to meet, asap. I don't like wasting my time just chatting online when a woman lives only a few miles away. Do you ask right up front if they're married or attached? ..... Nope... don't care.... not my concern. To find out someone you might like to meet is attached is one of the biggest turnoffs I know. .... Meet them anyway. Married people , men or women, don't always want sex.... they are just lonely in their marriage, usually, and want some outside stimulation. Cerebral, sensual, ... [their goal] isn't always about having sex.
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We think that maybe it would be nice to at least make contact and find out whatever it is you would like to know. As a married couple were are looking for a women for him as I have someone I enjoy being with but we do not have someone for him. If we don't find someone then I should stop seeing my friend or find another couple, tried that hard to find that right person and besides I like my friend. Not all married men are bad should at least hear what they have to say if you do not like it then say bye.
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I don't want to hear what married men have to say because it's still a waste of my time. They should read profiles, or if they're basic, the tag line, and know to leave me alone.
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Single men mostly don't need this site because they can meet women in bars etc. Married men have to hide what they are doing so online contact is more convenient for them. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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sexienan replies on 4/9/2019 2:48 am: I guess maybe I'm selfish but I would like to have someone in my life that is available oh say at Christmas time or maybe Valentine's Day. Not someone who has to share his time with someone else ----------------------------------------------------------- Okay, so you want someone in your life, to share some moments in life with you. So why not be rational about where you hunt for these men? Rationally, would you go to the Ashley Madison site to find a man who would be by your side on Christmas or Valentines Day? No. That would be irrational. So too looking for a man on a sex site [here] , irrational, for your purposes. Theoretically , the better online sites to look for what you want, would be the sites that advertise commitment. ha..... not sex hookup sites. The rational choice would be, maybe, Match , or Eharmony. ..... I'm not saying there won't be married men there....I'm saying those sites would be a better place to find what you seek. Anyway.. try that, and if you're going to stay and play here, don't be put off by married guys looking for chat. You won't get hurt.
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Hey Darlin, .........Marriage,......Hmmmm, Yeah I never made that mistake,.......Came close once, but thank Great Satan’s Pitchfork that one of us had the sense to walk away quickly,.......... Sinfully Yours, backpocket13
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