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Life Happens...  

SpecialSumting 49M/39F
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1/27/2019 1:45 pm
Life Happens...

We are increasingly getting frustrated with the site and members. I don't know about anyone else, but we have a life. Husband, wife, , work, family, etc etc etc.... There is no way to drop everything and jump in bed with someone who says "hi there." Is it too much to ask that people realize that life happens and we choose to talk/message a bit first to make sure things click before jumping into the sack? For us, my husband weeds through the hundreds of people who message, flirt, wink, hotlist, view us each week. He then sends me a few that may spike an interest with me. When I have the time, I go through messages and try to chat a bit first. I like to know that those who we invite to be a part of our lives, if only for a brief time, are people that are appealing, clean, and the type of people we may have life long friendship with as well. So this is just me, blowing off steam saying... HEY... life happens, chill and we will get to people as we can.

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