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First Meet Guys - what is your ideal first meet after you've been talking to a girl on this site? How long do you talk to her before you expect a meet up? |
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Hard to say. I've met gals after a single IM chat, and I've met gals after months of chat. I think, ideally, once it goes from IM chat to a phone call or two, and both are serious about meeting, comfortable with each other, and also pretty sure they aren't being scammed, the meet can happen pretty fast...maybe within a week, depending on each other's schedules. As for the first meet, I think it should go as it was planned and agreed to. This is supposed to be fun and not create a feeling of...uh oh, what did I get myself into?! It'll be pretty clear relatively quickly if you're going to keep it to cocktails or be banging each other from one end of the house to the other by the end of the meet. I always say, "No pressure, no expectations," is a good attitude to have when meeting for the first time. If you both click, great, if not, at least try to enjoy the brief time together, then move on.
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Excellent questions. I would answer that you IM until you both are comfortable with meeting. Might take several exchanges, but candor on both parties is important. Trust is even more important. As for the first meeting, my preference is so something casual and relaxed. Something that each party could walk away from and not feel guilty.
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It's varied over the time I've been online. Some have met very quickly while others took a lot longer up to several months.
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it was only 10 days talking then 1st meet for sex!
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what is your ideal first meet .... Ideally, there would be instant mutual sexual interest..........if not, then the meeting is a dud. When it's a dud, turn around and leave. How long do you talk to her before you expect a meet up?,.... About 10 minutes. Any longer than 10 minutes, each [especially the male, if the woman is at all attractive] , is risking losing attention on each other. The competition, online, needs to be dealt with immediately.
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It varies depending on the person I'm chatting to. One time I had to wait three months because of snow. Another I met for a coffee after exchanging just a few IM messages, but that was mainly to arrange the meeting place and time. We met up and had a chat, realised we weren't looking for the same thing and decided not to take it any further.
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I take it at whatever pace the lady wants. As for me, I'm real, upfront and adventurous, so am ready for meeting IN PUBLIC after a few chat (max). 27 Inches Needed Busted Black and White, on HNW Pussy Problems [post 3312759] My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets
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Hmm, When are we having coffee?  
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You should respond to your blog replies. Makes for a more enjoyable & interactive experience.
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It all depends... Sometimes a week, others a few days, once 2 years, once just 1 day (& we wound up actually dating for 3 years! Go figure - neither of us saw that coming haha) I don't meet with any expectations either because that helps keep things pretty simple then. Drinks 1st, always with the night open. If there's no click it's a easy exit (dinners can be awkward if the girl isn't quite who she describes herself as when chit chatting along the way) ~Lotsa
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2/1/2019 3:50 pm |
I guess it depends on what someone is looking for. More serious = more calls, less serious less calls..Probably at least a week or two of exchanges.
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til we get comfortable chatting then get a room with a spa then enjoy the night
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2/7/2019 8:57 pm |
Personally, I never expect a meetup. And I never press the other party to agree to one. I don't think there is a specific time I shoot for. I just try to sense when it is best to suggest it based on the content and flow of the conversation.
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I leave it totally up to her but in game for the same night 4182232
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3/29/2019 12:29 pm |
real women meet on here? lol
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