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Beneficial things and time
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Beneficial things and time We all will review our life and find what made us feel important. I know some of you will gravitate to the stability of a job. Some of you will realize that you worked so hard for all the things you have and arrived at the conclusion you are happier having learned the value of belongings. Perhaps the most important notion is to embrace what you've done in life to feel worthy of mentioning to a close friend. I felt that I met a lot of people whom shared their joys and successes with me. I love seeing people happy and accomplishing and getting a lot out of their lives. So I am not so self absorbed. I do value my life to an extent but I also like to think of others. In all my relationships I saw people excel in their working career and graduated from the early things if you know what I mean. So you start with a different position and then over time get a raise or more. Maybe some people feel they are entitled to be respected due their financial stability...but I think respect is about being able to treat someone kindly irrespective of their creed, race, status in life. What I think anyone can benefit in treating everyone the same is to see life in a different life. In the end we are all human beings... As for any relationships that were terminated or whatever, I'm sure there are lessons we have all learned. That we can choose to remain kind to others and understand our communication can either open more doors or lock them for good. If you've seen past relationships were beneficial its great to hear. I know that all relationships are geared to build your character but not all relationships are bound to fail.... Just keep in mind how you became someone you thought you didnt want to be but you became a nicer guy or gal... Its so true, if you are not giving more to a relationship.. then you'll think someone is just doing that to you. For me I made allowances to<b> forgive </font></b>anyone and everyone because I felt that I conditioned myself to always say, I want to work things out in my relationship and treat someone fairly... It is to say if you gave me reason to not trust you, then maybe I have valid reason to. However there is such a thing when you choose a very attractive partner, remain aware that you make the choice to trust that person or not...but as I said before, some people are just so attractive and it will never matter where they go, they will get looked at, gawked at or fantasized about... I created this blog to help others understand that you can overcome your insecurity and learn that someone in time will be worthy of your trust...but if they prove you wrong then they weren't on the same page... Its better to not be with someone if you dont even trust them... the truth is that if you have an open relationship, you might be open up to disease because you dont know they are sleeping with a lot of people...these are real facts and its a world we live in today.... lust has consequences and being vindictive has consequences. it is never beneficial to an individual to have an open relationship. That is my take because there is no commitment, and sharing yourself with others freely is not love whatsoever... the more you spend time having empty encounters the more you realize you live an empty life without love... so I have come to the conclusion I would rather be with someone who can love and focus on me in entirety. Love is always patient and kind...many of us can and will find someone worthy for a lifetime |
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