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Blogs > SexyGILFNeedsLuv > My Blog

Fuck Buddy vs. Relationship?  

SexyGILFNeedsLuv 67F
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6/22/2019 1:07 pm
Fuck Buddy vs. Relationship?
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HAMONMAN 64M
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6/22/2019 1:18 pm


Imthatgirl1122 42F
1835 posts
6/22/2019 1:48 pm

 I miss being in relationship...but too scared to be in it too


SexyGILFNeedsLuv replies on 7/11/2019 5:56 pm:
Girlfriend, I get it. It's scary. I was back on the market after a 30 year marriage. Everything about dating had changed! But I refused to think I couldn't find one more great love and you have to take the risk of being hurt to find that guy.

Luck44l 36M
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6/22/2019 1:57 pm

 Thank u dr.laura


SexyGILFNeedsLuv replies on 7/11/2019 5:54 pm:
You are very welcome.

Dr. Diana

mikefranks24 44M

6/22/2019 2:02 pm

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s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
6/22/2019 2:37 pm

 There are a lot more what they don't wants
than what they do wants in profiles.
It must be that everyone here has a different
take on what they're up to here.
Dating sets a nice pace since Hi's are hellos
and unlike here where it's "hey sit on my face!"

A text conversation is a short exchange of often
truncated words that corresponds to a thought
made all the more shallow simply by the process.
Using more than all the road!


SexyGILFNeedsLuv replies on 7/11/2019 5:54 pm:
You will never get to meet me if you're opening line is "hey, sit on my face". I hope that's not your greeting. Yes, everyone here could be looking for something different and I think that's why women state what they don't want. I try to put it in more positive terms.

dogslife2live01 71M
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6/22/2019 2:50 pm

 butt butt butt if one was looking for a relationship would they not look at a dating site?
butt butt butt i also noticed you told all the guys what to do... does that mean that when it comes to relationships
only the men are clueless?
there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


SexyGILFNeedsLuv replies on 7/11/2019 5:52 pm:
I didn't have much success on dating sites. I found the men on FriendFinder-x more apt to actually meet because, let's face it, they're horny. They have more incentive. And since I'm very sexual, I wanted a very sexual man so this has worked out for me.

No, it's absolutely not only the men that are clueless. A lot of women are just as clueless. But I can only comment on what women are looking for since I'm not a man. LOL

dogslife2live01 71M
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6/22/2019 2:55 pm
    Quoting Imthatgirl1122:
    I miss being in relationship...but too scared to be in it too
lndi i am reading more than one scared scenario!?... but the good thing about relationships
they happen if you are ready or not
there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


SexyGILFNeedsLuv replies on 7/11/2019 5:49 pm:
I agree, it's scary. But if you don't take the risk of getting hurt, you don't get the prize either. So take it slow, ignore words and watch their actions, and don't fall too fast. Everyone's true nature eventually comes out.

scoupe42 60M
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6/22/2019 3:16 pm

 Good blog! It make sense to me.


SexyGILFNeedsLuv replies on 7/11/2019 5:47 pm:
Thanks.

backpocket13 50M
9007 posts
6/22/2019 3:23 pm

 Hey Darlin,
..........A real relationship is like a job, and you Both have to work at it Full Time,..........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


SexyGILFNeedsLuv replies on 7/11/2019 5:47 pm:
Absolutely! Both people have to be willing to put in the effort.

redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
6/22/2019 3:23 pm

 Just to be clear, a "fuck buddy" or "NSA" IS a relationship. It is just a short term (usually) mostly sexual relationship.

Otherwise, you have some good points, which some people will disagree with.
When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


SexyGILFNeedsLuv replies on 7/11/2019 5:47 pm:
It could be a relationship. It could be a one night thing. If that meets both persons needs, go for it.

dogslife2live01 71M
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7/12/2019 4:48 am

 "I didn't have much success on dating sites. I found the men on FriendFinder-x more apt to actually meet because, let's face it, they're horny. They have more incentive. And since I'm very sexual, I wanted a very sexual man so this has worked out for me."

and after you strip away the words...
only truths are left
there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity


garygrayson 70M

8/12/2019 10:47 am

 Agreed with all you said. While having a great sex life (at our age) is a blessing, you have to start being a part of each other's vanilla life as well. God, some of my greatest sexual experiences were while travelling with my partner, even if it's just a long weekend wine tasting. For me, however, there are a lot of ladies out there that have only one goal... finding a man that can "take care of them." This is especially true of the younger ones, and don't get me started on the ones that list themselves as being close by but end up being outside the country. I've never met a woman that was half my age that wasn't all about the money. Thus, I try to stay within 10 - 15 years of my age. Whatever happened to the "strong, independent woman", that doesn't need a man to keep her, but maybe would like to have him around to service her needs and maybe be a part of her life?


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