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More Thoughts on Sensual Dominance  

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2/2/2019 8:48 am
More Thoughts on Sensual Dominance

If you’re into the idea of sensual domination, you might especially shrink at the idea of pain and punishment. Fortunately, sensual domination is the perfect setting for reward. When your submissive is obedient, she gets rewarded.

For people who don’t enjoy humiliation and “cruelty” during their BDSM scenes, sensual domination offers another option: praise. You tell your woman what a good girl she’s being and caress her sweetly. She’s earned your love and devotion, and you’re happy to provide it.

Sensual domination pairs well with certain roleplaying roles. Imagine any role where the dominant is benevolent and loving, and the submissive is devoted. You’re not looking for a way to respond to disappointment. Instead, you want to help her succeed so you can show her how good she’s been.

Many people who enjoy sensual domination point out that pleasure and pain are on opposing sides of the same coin, the stimulation coin. One method is to provide stimulation that will bring your partner close to orgasm. As she’s approaching orgasm, you can add stimulation such as spanking or teasing. You can still can add spanking, flogging or any of your other favorite BDSM activities to this mix. Just choose lighter tools and avoid long sessions that really test your partner’s limits. So a small flogger or a fur-lined paddle are better options than a cane. You don’t need to mix pleasure and pain when it comes to sensual domination, but that is just one option.

Just because sensual domination is less intense than other types of domination doesn’t mean that it doesn’t take a toll on you. Make sure to check in with your partner after a scene to remain grounded. You might not be physically or emotionally exhausted, but some cuddling and a glass of water never do anyone wrong!

Speaking of safety, it’s always wise to set up a safe word, even if you don’t think you’ll need it. A safe word allows you to check in with your submissive and enables him to stop or slow play if it’s becoming too intense.

One popular method is the red/yellow/green system. Just like traffic lights, these colors enable you to proceed freely, with caution or to stop altogether if you need to. If your submissive is gagged, consider an alternative method for her to inform you to slow down or stop. Dropping a ball or tapping the bed frame are just two options. You might never need to use your safe word, but it’s always better to have one and not need it than to not have one when you do need it. Of course, you can check in with your partner more directly by asking her how she’s doing and if she likes what’s happening.

Whether you’re just getting into<b> dominance and submission </font></b>or desire something a little less intense, sensual domination enables you to experiment with power exchange without the more hardcore elements of BDSM which can be intimidating and even scary.

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