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Life of a CD
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Life of a CD Ok, Due to what I have seen, heard and personally experienced on this Site and others, I thought perhaps I would share my experiences, opinions, and insights on the CD scene. So with that in mind? Do bare in mind this is My experience and Opinions. Nothing is ever 100% factual when conversing about human psychology. Life is all about ones Why"s? Why are you on here, ? Why are you doing what you do on here? It will vary from person to person as Life is an individual experience, Hence never assume All CDs are of the same mindset. My reason for the CD thing purely for my own enjoyment, and on the Androgynous Mentality SIDE then of the Feminine Mentality. ( Though obviously a tilt to the Fem side) I have No desire to be Female, or to act like one, or talk like one. I do not identify with having a Clitty or pussy ( or any other female term most seem to want to identify with). Nor am I of the Sissy mentality. In my research on here and many other sites, it seems like the CD thing is popping up like weeds, And Most 40yrs and up. Most are married or attached, deep in the closet sneaking around, doing what they can behind the wives back( so to speak). ( each to their own). The fucking porn, wow, it has soo distorted the reality of what a beautiful interaction between 2 Humans can be. So after many years of watching porn, they slip deeper and deeper into that Fantasy of?? whatever their interests is. But Now just watching is wearing thin, Now they want some Human interaction, hence the Cam Rooms, Maybe you go in one and be the Stud or Slut you fantasize about? and maybe someone will actually talk to you? Which can indeed be fun, YOU must First find someone who is in Alignment with your Fantasy, Not all Are. Hence read the profile of the person who you are interested in first, There is someone with your same kink,on here somewhere. Just don't Assume all Are. Most seem to want to go to the raunchy and sleazy , rough side of it. But the Majority have never and will most likely never experience any of it, or what they have written in their Profile, Nor has the Ones that come into ones cam room and start being rude and crude as they possibly can, . Life in Cyber-world and Fantasy Land are So different then Reality. Now here is the kicker, if indeed an opportunity did present themselves for that particular experience? They would chicken out , find excuses as to why ? they cant. And to those that are serious about really wanting to experience whatever kinky shit you have in mind? ITS so Simple!!!!!!!! Go hire an ESCORT , they will fulfill any perversion u can imagine. Of course it wont be free, Why should it. IT is adult entertainment. You pay for all other forms of entertainment. I hear the ' I dont pay for sex; ( My Hard Dick should be enough) Fucking Really?? for those who want to experience some kinky stuff ect. I say "well then you will never experience it" Be realistic, ( AS an example) your an older fat hairy guy , u r married, deep in the closet, you will never get a beautiful TRANS/ ect on your own Merritt's. you aint gonna go to a club where they are, you don't have time, u have 1 or 2 hrs before the wife gets back lol. But the solution is right there.. And yet you let pass you by, . This is the HARD COLD FACTS of Reality.. Why did i mention this? because you need a reality check, if you are content to stay in Fantasy land and be a cyber asshole, then carry on , it is your Life , Most of us CDS/TRANS are bottoms, we have no interest in fucking a male ass , even less the older you get. ( go find another married guy for that). But if you wanna pay for it, then you can have all your desires come true. This is based on over 10 ,000 online chats with guys from all over the world,( JUST IN THE LAST 6YRS) ,, Over 1,000 real life hook-ups), so it is a condensed version, as only a Big Book, could really delve into all the many nuances this topic entails.( There are many) I mention the Stats ? just so you know im not speaking in Ignorance of this Topic or from a Book from someone who did a study from second hand stories. p.s. THERE are indeed nice and real gentlemen on here and in the world, and even those who come off like pigs, I am sure even you guys are nice at heart, you just got caught up in the bullshit of the porn. Charm , Witt, intelligence trumps a dick all the time. Much Love&Light /Sadie |
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2/14/2019 4:05 am |
well said Sadie! lots of truth to claims you have made I as one am guilty of those same reasons you speak of but I am a porn addict and always needing more more more kinda like a drug always seeking that better high I am middle aged in the closet and have gone from playboy to penthouse to hustler online videos to TS TV TG CD it is now what turns me on the most I am not gay have no desire to be with or make out with a man just very attracted to a nice cock on a womans body I have dressed myself and know how great it feels but what is missing is the final chapter in my fantasy would being a full tie CD going out in public I think would be the next exciting thing for me meeting others with same mind set and being married married to a woman totally against my fetish makes it impossible so just watching others on this site is what turns me on so when you are thinking with the other head all aroused sometime you chat things that are inappropriate and may be taken offensively by the broadcaster which is not truly who they are its just being so aroused just before cumming that makes one say stuff like I want to suck ur dick fuck you so bad suck my cock you little slut ect.ect…… all part of the moment .hope to chat more with you Sadie you are one of the few on this site with a brain
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2/14/2019 9:17 pm |
Yes, we all have a starting place, of our sexual odyssey and journey to explore,. But as one delves into the Cam rooms to have an actual chat ( so to speak) One can still be an Adult and courteous. The Cyber role play Fantasy ? can be all that you want it to be etc, All you need to do is find someone in Alignment. How does one Know? Usually, it's as simple as Reading the Profile of the " person of interest" you see in the "Who is on little Window" Most will say what they are into, and if you are in the same space, , go for it. IT Takes like less then 1 minute. AS an example " I personally detest the word clitty and ass pussy, etc" I State that in my Bio, yet, in they come, Hey show me that Clitty, . And furthermore, DEMANDING, not even please. And I know a lot of the CDS on cam seem to RELISH in BEING Told, so they do without Hesitation, again, each to their own, , . A lot on cam are on to get " Down and Dirty" just NOT ALL OF US ARE. As far as meeting others, ?? There are lots just like you in your area,If you truly want to Enter into the Real World,?? It will be most likely be Your most ??? experience the first time. Its usually very Awkward til you overcome your fears etc, Now depending on what you actually want to experience ?? Reality and Fantasy?? Are 2 different scenes. The Fantasy you have in your mind is PERFECT, in all aspects. In Reality?? it Seldom Meets your Expectations. If your Fantasy doesn't include any talking, or a particular look, , ( for example, you just want to suck strangers cock being dressed, what place you decide, a park, etc, then it is easy. If through your Fantasy requires the other to be an actual Talking Participant? and of a certain Demeanor, Look etc, that's where you will most likely be Soo Disappointed lol. Remember that online everyone is a Porn Star, the worlds best lover etc, and Take it all " WITH A GRAIN OF SALT". I am not Gay either,I like all Genders. You can like it All, you Don't have to choose 1 over the other. Mix and Match , lol. Have fun So check out your local Sites/Apps, Us CDS are popping up like weeds everywhere these days. and most seem to be the 40 yr and up age class so it seems. Hence the Raunchy Sleazy Profiles you see from most CD profiles. It's a burning desire to experience something so different from what they have to date. You may find a Kindred Spirit to explore with, But Do Rember to Play It SAFE. . p.s. you Will, if you proceed? most likely run into a " UNDETECTABLE HIV POSITIVE " PERSON. and like most Ignorant People will run the other way. But the Truth is, you are Totally safe in regards to it being Transmitted, To date, it hasn't Happened, , They are Testing every 3 months, for all STDS,, AS opposed to someone who has never been tested, There are lots of other STDS out there. But still you should always use protection,. All this, " Feed me, Cum in me, let me suck and swallow your cum,?? In Fantasy land, sure, Real WORLD? well thats your call.. i MENTION THIS Because the Married/bi guys dont Know,.. So do Google it, Educate Yourself on STDS. p.s.s There are a lot of fantastic wonderful and beautful souls on here from all over the world., Just bare in mind, A lot of us get a lot of mail, etc, and a lot of it is Noise( so to speak) so after many yrs one does get Jaded , lol. Being Horny doesn't mean you have to be an Asshole, .. love&light/ Sadie I
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