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Blogs > CaptainBigD05 > Captain's Quarters

Dating for men is difficult  

CaptainBigD05 34M
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3/2/2019 7:05 pm
Dating for men is difficult

Online dating for a male seeking a female is very difficult, and I'm not sure many women realise this. I understand that women get hundreds of messages a day and have to sort though them and men need a picture, name, or tagline to stand out and grab their attention, but i don't think some women realise that many men message dozens of women and are lucky to get only a handful of replies.

Not to mention there are so many fake accounts on dating apps. Bots trying to direct you to a site to pay money, girls trying to get you to pay money for nudes, guys pretending to be girls for whatever their reasons may be. If I see someone attractive online I naturally assume the account is fake (because why would hot girls need online dating? They can just walk outside and<b> bang </font></b>any dude they want). I weary to trust anyone on the internet.

Women will say things like "Don't just say hey, grab my attention" but then they will only say "hey". And its hard for men who are unattractive or socially awkward to grab a woman's attention. Those men are probably better for the woman than the pretty boy's that the women lust after and choose anyway. I get that you need attraction, but at least give a guy a chance to show what makes him attractive.

I once made a fake POF account to test a theory. I just copy and pasted my own POF profile into this one only used different pics and messaged the same girls saying the same things. I never got a single reply but the fake one got dozens of replies. Once i admitted the profile was fake and pointed them to my real profile the women were pissed. I understand why they would be, but if they had taken the time to read the bio instead of looking at the pics, they'd realise that it didn't match up. I had one girl admit that she didn't even bother opening the message from my real account. It just bothers me that if you're not super hot, girls don't give you the time of day. Its sad that i have to use fake pics just to get women to talk to me.

I know a lot of women that don't even have any intention to meet a man on dating apps. Why do you have it if you never plan to meet anyone? Just looking for hot guys so you can masturbate to? Like you're ruining it for the men that want a serious relationship and have difficulty meeting women already.

But I get that women have difficulties too, men lie, use them for sex, and are unbelievably rude sometimes, but just because there are men that are like that, and just because thats the type of men that are often publicly displayed for all to see, that doesn't mean all men are like that. Give a guy a chance, don't assume he'll be like all the others. Thats why you are missing out on all the great men.

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