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Why is it so hard?
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Why is it so hard? It’s super hard to actually communicate with people here, I wish it were easier but there are so many reasons why..... 1) a lot of really nice profiles, BUT the person who created it is either not who they say they are (man instead of women) or they’re not into what they say they are (they’re not bi curious but straight) 2) the ones that we’ve found that are real attractive and real people are so buried in communication that they couldn’t care less 3) fake profiles made by FriendFinder-x or lss 4) bad timing, you’re on, they just left, or on IM and really involved with the new person But then again it’s probably fear, many people have their hidden agenda of what they’re really wanting to accomplish, and due to the importance of the goal being reached, they fear being completely honest about what they want, who they are, who they want to become, and how they believe they are going to reach this goal. Not to mention that what relief they believe that they will receive when they finally reach the goal. The goal could be anything, (have sex with many partners, many partners at the same time, people of the same or opposite sex, make and broadcast video,and the list goes on and on) but how many try to reach it is another. We have to be more honest with ourselves, then we can honest with our peers, for without it, we’ll spin out of control eventually. For example if I came here because I have some fetish that I believe that society will judge me on and want to investigate it then I will post it and ask questions, not manipulation of others perceptions so that I can be in situations that are similar to my hidden desires. Mind you some things are illegal and yes if that’s your bag then you shouldn’t declare those ideas, it may not go well. But if you’re a lady who want to feel the touch of a lady, then don’t list yourself as straight, you’re not. If you enjoys wearing costumes and role play leading to a desired goal, there’s places like that here! FEAR is false evidence appearing real. I jumped out of an airplane and skydove, it was great! But beforehand I had concerns that I didn’t mention, in other words fears, but I jumped anyway because the the path to personal freedom is in the truth, and the truth was I wanted that experience to remember, I love to feel a rush, adrenaline, and it comes from taking risks, that’s why I’m here. Society doesn’t get to judge me because my wife and I want to both share and explore other women , for whatever reasons we have, they are our reasons. She and I do this together to help keep us honest with each other, for safety, and we cooperate and creatively initiate with each other well too. I don’t mention this outside of here strictly for people’s (besides my own) personal<b> privacy </font></b>rights, I really don’t care what the rest of the world thinks, fuck them. |
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