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stagvixen11 38M/34F  
15 posts
3/12/2019 8:56 am
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I just wanted to make a mini blog to clear some things and maybe help a few out that might find our screening process frustrating.

Being in the lifestyle for some time, we have been told just about anything and everything and have been invited into some situations that could have gone south quickly. Not everyone has the best intentions. so please, please just bare with us. As most of you know we do have small so I will screen anyone until I have peace of mind I can trust to a certain extent on who will be visiting my home and sharing our bedroom.

We fully understand that we request a lot when chatting. We are not gold, so not only do we need pictures we need a little<b> background </font></b>and a little about you to help with making our decision. We are very much quality over quantity. With that being said we don't expect anyone to be a solid 10. We are all human and no one is perfect. I understand our screening process to some can be a little much, but if we're putting ourselves out there I would fully expect the same from any of you. Don't expect an invite over if you can not provide a live photo or any photo we request. (or go MIA after we request one, then revisit the chat 5 days later saying "what's up" like nothing ever happened) yeah, we're still waiting on your pics but don't bother now because i'm very uninterested by having to wait and getting blown off. I'm picky and have every right to be so please be smart about your first impressions, you only get one

XOXOXO -Jane-

tnt_ia 50M/54F
29 posts
3/12/2019 9:04 am

Well said.


Love2voyeur604 34M

3/12/2019 9:35 am

You can never be to safe.


PrairieFire88 60M  
395 posts
3/12/2019 9:35 am

I believe that is normal for anyone here, but thanks for putting it out there.


stagvixen11 replies on 3/12/2019 12:32 pm:
You would be surprised with how many abandon the screening process after we request a live picture, or any real information that would assist us with generating a personal connection or assumption about them. I personally believe if we're providing those with as up to date as possible material, they should be doing the same It's amazing how much bodies change from one picture to a live one lol.

SingleItalianGy2 52M
1205 posts
3/12/2019 10:03 am

Have missed you all on CAM. Were always one of my FAVORITES to watch. Do what ever you have to ....in order to protect yourselves


misterdaddy654 49M
20 posts
3/12/2019 10:04 am

Hey, we all need to be safe and rules are rules. If you can not follow them then your out.


11234aspinner 77M

3/12/2019 10:04 am

Being safe is vital. There are people here who are dangerous and only you can keep yourself safe from them. Use great screening steps and you will spot the good and bad wanting to meet you.


7I48677998 53M
16 posts
3/12/2019 10:07 am

Agreed


meatrocket1418 33M

3/12/2019 10:27 am

well put thank you for sharing


Raine319 55M/54F

3/12/2019 10:34 am

jane u r 100% right! you put that beautifully by the way and managed to enhance your beauty with your inteligence n honesty !cheers to you!


99lucia 68M

3/12/2019 11:18 am

Very well said.

Lucia
NSA, FWB, DFK, LFK, DATY, love it all


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
3/12/2019 12:30 pm

Remember dangerous people are very good
at what they do.That's why they're dangerous!
One can only hope your kids are to young to understand
why so many people are in mommy and daddy's room.

Using more than all the road!


Couple4Fun3350 43M/44F  
23 posts
3/30/2019 7:31 am

Well said, and sadly the experiences you have are far to common practice on this site.

{=}Firey Redhead{=}


DriveAlive25 36M
46 posts
6/2/2019 7:34 am

I agree with you about safety and quality over quantity. You're definitely worth the effort. I'm willing to invest the time.


71Chuck 75M  
22 posts
5/24/2020 9:37 am

If I think you're saying you want pictures here since you're not gold. Right? Your post above Jane is the reason I've been courageous enough to send my "application" to join you and Tarzan . I want to feel safe too and you make me feel safe. I will respectfully submit anything you need to make you feel safe too. This is my first foray into the lifestyle so I'm looking for exactly what you two are looking for. I've tried to position my verification picture but I don't see it so I hope it shows up where it's supposed to. Sorry I'm learning this site and there's a lot to learn yet.


71Chuck 75M  
22 posts
5/24/2020 9:43 am

Well, that didn't go as I expected lol. Hope it doesn't scare you but you can see every freckle in fine print. Hair is lockdown length and more frizzy than normal since I just showered and blew it dry. I guess no one's perfect, right? lol I hope your Memorial Day vacation is going well for you and those you care about.


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