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Differing Sexual Needs  

ManinEverett 46M
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3/13/2019 1:05 pm
Differing Sexual Needs


Hi All,

I'm hoping to spark continued discussion on how to navigate the issue of differing sexual needs between couples. It is an age-old story, where one person is horny as heck and the other could either take it or leave it. The emotional issues abound because our sexual lives can really hit our egos, desires, fantasies and worth.

On the side of the high-sex drive partner, it gets old asking for sex. There comes a point where you feel like you are now "bothering" the other person. The sad part is that there are few options open, online porn, , an office affair, etc. These all have varying degrees of risk, both to health and emotional state.

On the low-sex drive side, they can feel "objectified" by the other, only wanted due to their sex organs. And while they hold a lot of the power, it doesn't necessarily translate to better emotional health.

So....any thoughts? For those that are in, or have been in relationships like this, what have you done?

Thanks!

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