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Who I am/What I Do
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Who I am/What I Do Very quick, a little about myself. My wife and I have been practicing a 24/7 D/S lifestyle for over a year. We have always had a "bedroom D/s" relationship, however we both decided that her complete and total submission was the next step in our relationship, maybe even the only way to save our marriage (that's for another day). Our 24/7 relationship consists of several routines, very structured, very organized. This is very, very important. She is scatter brained and messy, I request that she be better. Every Sunday I write her a daily breakdown for the week. If it is time for her to prepare to learn another skill, I'll break it down with an explanation of intent, my expected outcome, and several dates that I call "mile stone checks", where I evaluate and critique her progress so far. Parts of her routine so far have included, posture training, walking like a proper lady, sitting like a lady, kneeling and standing practice, corset training, heel training, buttplug training, etc. I try to mix it up week to week to keep her from getting bored or too comfortable. Most lessons are for her betterment, helping her becoming more sexual, helping her become more feminine. As expected I am very involved during training sessions. I tend to be understanding when new skills are not learned or performed correctly, however sloppy execution of previously learned behaviors will result in verbal discipline or physical punishment, which will take place during our nightly session. Our "sessions" as we like to call them happen at night, when the are a sleep and the house is to ourselves. During these we incorporate the new skills into the bedroom, letting her confidence and sexuality pass across the borders of bedroom and public, to the point where the line is blurred and the rationalization of why some things shouldn't co-exist simple vanishes. She is a rope bunny, she loves to be bound. Impact play is also used, although I never enjoy punishing my Lady, but to instill proper training it is required. Lady does enjoy it rough, so constant bratty behavior to trigger a punishment gets handled... differently. My view and interpretation of Domination is as follows. Nothing is forced without consent. The purpose of training is to better the submissive in all aspects of life. The purpose of her willing submission should be to desire and accept these changes to further grow as a woman and an individual. My Lady is my perfect sub. I like to reward and train. I like to encourage growth. She is my baby girl, and seeks my approval in everything, and works very hard to meet my sometimes lofty expectations I set for her. However, as I stated before, sometimes there must be punishment. I don't like to inflict pain for pain sake, but when a sharp slap on the ass brings a muted sigh to my submissive's lips, I can't help but smile. She isn't my sex slave, I have no interest for those. I get gratification watching her grow and progress farther and farther down this path she asked to be led down. Watching her instinctively walk per our training, her legs crossing in front of each other, her body swaying, gliding gracefully across the floor, seeing the time and effort pay off, that is my reward. And she loves it. The compliments at work have gotten greater, the men that enter her place of work give her double takes, long stares, etc. She loves it. She feels like grace and sensuality personified, and I love it, because she is MINE. I firmly believe a proper D/s relationship can/should be the most intense love you can feel for a person. I've always loved my wife, but ever since I collared her, our intimacy has been off the charts. After our sessions I look at her with pride and amazement, even though her body has been racked and ravaged by our play and her pleasure. I've held her, my tears streaming down my cheeks onto her flesh below me, so proud of how well she took the punishment and pain. I've stroked her cheek and told her what a wonderfully good girl she is, and how happy I am that she is mine. And I worship her, in my own way, in my Dominance, when she satisfies me in ways no other woman has even come close to. This dynamic has taken us to a whole new place. A place I never ever want to leave. I've helped new confused Dom's understand their wants and desires. I've spoken to submissive woman about the lifestyle and spoken to the qualities to look for when deciding on the man/woman to submit too. Most importantly I remain a student to the game. Every great teacher never outgrows being a student, for you never know when a situation may arise that you are not expecting. And there it is, a quick, yet not brief, run down of some of my thoughts and desires. Questions? Comments? Concerns even? I'd love to see them. Thank you for taking the time to read, and hopefully this will lead to many more post down the road. --Dominus to my Lady, Mr.S --Dominus to my Lady; Mr.S |
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