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Blogs > BrickPickle > Sex and Wine

Love Black Men  

BrickPickle 55M
4 posts
4/12/2019 9:51 am
Love Black Men

I love Men.

Shocking for a gay man, I know, but there it is I enjoy big, burly, muscular,<b> hairy </font></b>Alpha, Butch Bears, Bulls and Oxen. Part of that group is Black Men.

In my 20's and 30's, I asked Black Men to go on dates with me, over a 11 year period, and without fail, they all said the same thing:

"I DON'T DATE NAZI'S."

Then they would laugh and walk away, end the chat or text. Over a 11 year period this happened. End of report. Was it fair? No, they stereotyped me without getting to know me. Or they stood there giving me some lecture about sexualizing their blackness. No, I was asking for a date, not smearing your skin with baby oil and taking pictures. Or they would give some long winded philosophical treatise on something ephemeral. Sometimes they sexualized me, saying "I just love seeing my black cock fucking a white ass."

Nothing wrong with that, but you can't have it both ways.

These days I steer very clear from Black Men. I don't know what the deal is, but I just absolutely love Black Men. I love how they look, talk, feel, taste, their masculinity. But they are just too sexually mentally ill to deal with. There could be Black Men out there that are looking to just date without the stereotyping, but I haven't found any yet. Because my feelings get hurt too.

Too bad, because I love Black Men..

Bettibenobo 68F
423 posts
4/12/2019 9:45 pm

 I love black men too but I don't consider them to be Sexually Mentally ill. Were they gay or straight? You must remember
on here most men aren't looking to date - just to fuck.

If they were straight its because they're always getting gay men commenting on their pics who didn't bother reading their profile but was hoping they would find one thirsty enough to take them up on it.

I have no idea why a gay Black man would not want to go on a date with you.


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