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From "Maybe" To "Absolutely", and "Hi" to My "Self"  

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3/1/2020 7:01 pm
From "Maybe" To "Absolutely", and "Hi" to My "Self"

Yes, they have left, perhaps so long, but not goodbye? perhaps. Regardless, I have changed, or more like "morphed" ... in a way like a butterfly coming out of her chrysalis?! I know, that is so "girly girl" ... but the only example I can come up with at the moment that sorta says it all. And, on another level, that is exactly what I am talking about anyway. That is, before last July, I would have probably thought of "girly girl", but discarded it as not something I would usually say ... not appropriate ... shouldn't feel that way, etc. You know what I mean. Anyway can talk about that later.

I think I have had so much fun?! I have to digest it all now but I do know that the whole experience since July was/is sorta life-changing. It is not that I have really changed so much as I have learned/discovered to respect my "self', or pay more attention to "me" more and governed more by my "self" rather than social/society mores that do not fit or work for me other than just being conventional.

LOL as yes, here is an example of what I am trying to say now ... not so "girly girl", in fact sounds sorta stupid but I think illustrates my idea of being true to my "self" for myself and perhaps some others along the way. How about instead of just using social conventions/mores for my ultimate guides, be the somewhat unique we all are like instead of vanilla, try<b> chocolate </font></b>almond or instead of water, how about adding a flavor of my choice that I really like. And it wont be for everyone else but there will be those who really dig it also. I think this concept really enriches one's life. We will see. But, as you might be able to tell .... I am so tired ..... soooo tired. I will get to more specifics as to my adventures since Summer starting later this week, promise. But now ... bed.
xox Kaycee.

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