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Blogs > CliterateSkills > My Blog

Let's Get to Yes!  

CliterateSkills 50M
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5/28/2019 12:26 pm
Let's Get to Yes!

I am a walking cognitive dissonance machine. means people look at me and see vanilla, but I am not. People hear my Southern accent and assume racist and dumb, but I am not. People feel my kindness and think I am weak, but I am not. People experience my compassion and care while believing I cannot be strong and dominant when it is right. They are wrong.

I was raised in a subculture believed women were and are equal to men. It was mountain culture in East Tennessee. If you say no, I may ask if you are sure. If you are, I will respect your no. is the way I was raised. I will not try to push or manipulate you. I will not try to<b> trick </font></b>you and push your boundaries until you give in.

Anyone who thinks men isolate and wear down women out of desire, passion, and value has bought a pack of lies. Even “bad boys” want to be with women who actually want to be with them. If sex is really only about conquest and not pleasure/connection, then the thrill is based on winning the game rather than being with someone in a great way. It is ok to be a trophy when you are valued as a person. But if your value is only as a trophy, it will eat away at your self-confidence and cause you to resent men. It will turn healthy, positive sexuality into a necessary evil is fought and resisted until the will to resist is overcome by someone who does not care what happens to you next. This is how people come to hate the sex they once loved.

I love sex. I love sexuality. I love strong women. I love earning trust and respect. But I love myself too. I will not become a predator just to get my cock sucked. I can roleplay almost anything, but I will not bring degradation to real life.

This is how I am different. I am not trying to get past your “no”. I am trying to get to your “Yes!”

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