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Living as a TG  

Kwantssum 51T
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6/9/2019 8:26 am
Living as a TG

Sex has more control than most may think. It has away of shaping us and forming our mines and body. Living in the closet is no fun all. I have a lot of friends live there because of the fear of being exposed. I never have been the kind to go half way with anything. i can't go from one person to another as if turning on a light<b> switch. </font></b>Don't get me wrong i do not down the ones do.
i love you and i only wish you the best of everything. I have been a transgender from a very very early age. And it's not an easy life to living. I'm 54 now and after high school i decided to live my life as a woman. I could not live in the closet but above all I could not lie to myself. I have spent most of my life being who I am today. I'm Kelly and i like me. I maybe a pain in the ass some days but I love me anyway. It's Sunday and I'm sending out a wish to all. Have an awesome day.

HAMONMAN 64M
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6/9/2019 8:32 am

 Thanks Kelly


REDE4U581947 77M
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6/9/2019 9:04 am

 I wish I had the nerve you do. I am still in the closet and afraid to come out.


AnewWoman 65F
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6/9/2019 9:48 am

 People often say I had a lot of courage to transition, my only regret is I didn't transition at a much younger age as you had. You are only a little younger than myself. I doubt many realize what you have faced over the years, and it also explains why many who know our stories remain in the closet. I remember telling my ex that I could go back and forth, 6 months later she said it had to be one or the other and it was obvious what it needed to be. We went through my dresser and gave all the men's clothing to Goodwill. Next was telling her I could forego having surgery, two years later I had my SRS. And a year after that I told her I needed to experience men, she was surprised I hadn't already. Finding a man for sex has been unbelievably easy. There was a time I figured if I wanted I could have someone different everyday of the year. But I prefer relationships, and there in lies more difficulties we face. How many have told you when they realize you are TG how cool it is, .... only to be followed with "I wish you well." Then you have the haters who want to label you a child molester just because you are trans. Nothing brings you to tears faster than being accused of something so heinous. That is what we as transgender face in our daily lives. The transition never ends.


Whendidigetold 55M
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6/9/2019 10:35 am

 Good for you Kelly, I am just now taking my own first steps out of the closet.


Gina_L07 67T

6/21/2019 1:03 pm

 Live the life you want to live and not the one others want you to live.


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