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Scheduling for Success
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Scheduling for Success Meeting with someone on FriendFinder-x is different from dating in that the process of knowing someone and the path intimacy is usually much more rapid. This can vary from person person. For me the ideal time frame is chat here on FriendFinder-x for about minutes, arrange to meet via im or dm, meet up for drinks in a convenient location and if things go well enjoy hours or a morning, afternoon or whole night of sex. This is the ideal that I aim for and have attained on many occasions the pleasure of all involved. Everyone has their own schedules agendas and expectations in coming here and it is important to be upfront and honest about them so that nobody is disappointed and everyone is on the page with the arrangements. In general I schedule three hours minimum for every meeting. This includes an hour to meet and the rest to pursue pleasure. Dates have been longer or shorter but three hours as a minimum has worked well for me to have a rewarding and satisfying experience. Most people here have busy lives. Before you make an effort to arrange to meet with someone it is important to be honest with yourself about your priorities and obligations to determine whether or not you have free time sufficient to offer a quality experience to another person. Ideally experiences here are mutually satisfying and everyone involved has their expectations satisfied and their needs met. This is not always the case. Here are some obligations it is important to be upfront about with prospective partners: 1. If you are working from home or on during a date or have other obligations that may compete for your attention. 2. If you have work or an appointment soon after that you must be present for. 3. If you have family obligations that could cut into intimacy. 4. If you live with others and expect to host. 5. If you are traveling and have to make a flight, etc... Any other thing that could interrupt or cut into exclusive shared quality time together be upfront about it. It may be possible to arrange to meet at a time that is more convenient for all parties or come up with a workaround that works for everyone. Nobody wants to be disappointed or feel that their time has been wasted. Being willing to be honest about what works and what doesn’t in terms of your schedule rather than trying to squeeze in a<b> quickie </font></b>maintains positive and respectful experiences with others thus keeping doors open. A<b> quickie </font></b>can be great as long as everyone is on the page about it and has the expectations. Taking the time to be generous, thoughtful and above board in scheduling your dates with others ensures that everything stays win-win. |
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devlynne you have made some good points on scheduling for success x
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I bet there are a lot of very happy guys in your life.......Who knows maybe one day I can join their ranks..SMILE...
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Sage advice my lady A check list actually , but still , very apt ( and above all : No Pressure) Cheers - P
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Sounds reasonable
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8/13/2019 7:40 pm |
Thanks! ❤️✨
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