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Liar ...Coward...or just an Asshole...?  

GoddessGreen 51F
0 posts
8/23/2019 7:23 am
Liar ...Coward...or just an Asshole...?


I wanted to write a scaithing diatribe about the way people behave towards one another, but I know I can't do that because I have not always behaved towards some, as I should. But having said that, I try my damnedest to be honest with anyone I talk to, on any subject. So this is more about why people say things they don't mean.

What is it that makes someone say one thing and then turn around and do the total opposite? You might say they are lying or cowards or just plain full of shit. But I believe there has to be something fundimenatly wrong with a person, that would do that.
I had been talking to someone from here, who said if there was anything they could see that wouldn't work out, they would let me know. I'm good with that. But then all of a sudden all forms of communication stopped. My few messages ignored, but this person still checks in every day, and looks at my profile.

What's the point to blowing me off but still looking at my profile daily? I've thought about contacting said person and telling them to shit or get off the pot. Tell me, I wasn't what they were looking for and stop perving me.

I know you can block a person from sending you messages. Does that also block them from viewing your profile?

Anyone know the answer to that or have any other insights to my babblings? I'm always happy to have feed back.

Midnite528 51M
241 posts
8/26/2019 6:53 am

i would say that's all of the above


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
8/23/2019 8:29 pm

Sadly it's so common here. Just as common as no shows.
It's a classic saw something they liked better. This seems to
mirror rather closely with the notion of why women don't
send "not interested "replies.

Using more than all the road!


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
8/23/2019 6:41 pm

    Quoting GoddessGreen:
    Well It's done. Blocked on all fronts on here and can no longer contact me any other way. hands washed on that one!
good for you. sometimes you gotta do that with people - cut ties. cut ties and save your sanity


GoddessGreen replies on 8/23/2019 6:51 pm:
Jolielaide, yes cut my ties and losses and more on to better things.

NJGUY08090 57M
4306 posts
8/23/2019 5:38 pm

Knowing you as well as I have gotten to know you I does not sound like you are being treated as you would never deserve. Being a standard member I have noticed that this site does not work as well as it it did years or even months ago. I'm thinking that as much as I like this site it is not what it used to be.


GoddessGreen replies on 8/23/2019 6:50 pm:
NJGUY08090, thank you.I've dealt with it and The person in question was not worth the trouble they caused me. And thank you for always being a sweet caring man. I have enjoyed every bit of time we have been able to spent talking. Kisses

GoddessGreen 51F

8/23/2019 10:33 am

Well It's done. Blocked on all fronts on here and can no longer contact me any other way. hands washed on that one!


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
8/23/2019 9:47 am

if you go to your BLOCKED MEMBER LIST, you can block a member for a whole lot of different things. but you have to be sure to check either some or all the boxes you want. click ADD. and then scroll all the way to the bottom of the page and click on SAVED CHANGES. that's the way it works.

you can block a user from: reading your blog or commenting on a question you post to the magazine a/l, viewing your profile, writing a testimony, sending emails or flirts. it's up to you, goddess. don't waste any more of your good energy on a stranger.


GoddessGreen replies on 8/23/2019 10:03 am:
jolielaide, thank you so much for the input. I will be looking into all that you have suggested. Tie to be done with some random dumb ass and on to having more fun! Thanks again

Notaname99 64M  
568 posts
8/23/2019 9:35 am

I have some people that keep viewing my profile. I think it is that they are clicking on the last email they received from the site and it links directly to your profile. I do not use the mobile version but that is my guess is that it comes from that.


GoddessGreen replies on 8/23/2019 10:02 am:
Notaname99, thank you for the input.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
8/23/2019 8:47 am

sounds like Trump

yes people can be blocked from viewing your profile


GoddessGreen replies on 8/23/2019 9:15 am:
Hamonman, LMAO better hair and much better looking but yeah Canadian version of Trump! Good to know I will be looking into that!

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