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Know what you seek in a D/s life  

SGACouple60 69M/69F  
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5/2/2020 10:30 am
Know what you seek in a D/s life

There are allot of people that desire a 24/7 lifestyle. Many do not take the time understanding the whole psychological aspect and the work that is involved in keeping the D/s environment stimulating, and not slipping into a rut. It does take more work fostering stimulating conditions. Developing a great reward system and keeping new and exciting explorations into daily life. It does takes a bit of work and effort by a good Dom. Not taking even the smallest activity for granted or overlooked is the Doms responsibility. A simple thank you or acknowledgement of successful completion of all tasks can be so gratifying to your sub. Knowing that what they are doing is noticed and your approval is what they often crave.

In so many relationships, small things are taken for granted and then become disappointing for the person performing the tas This can be the start of the rut. Just the smallest thing can be recognized and a simple “good girl” can make such a difference and the rewards are innumerable. Every task a sub performs is undertaken because they wish please their Dom. Everything from a full dinner making a sandwich or bringing you a beverage should be acknowledged. A Doms job is value what their sub is doing for them. This in return will provide the simple pleasure and respect in the relationship.

Making plans or a schedule for special evenings can be exciting. Having the sub dress in a sexy outfit and meet you at the door in the French maid outfit or randy bar maid, can be what your makes your sub enthusiastic with anticipation for your approval. The Doms appreciation and pleasure is why the sub is doing this and should be recognized and valued no matter what. Meeting you and presenting themselves upon your arrival and your praise is what they crave. Make each day rewarding and this in turn will bring many great returns for all.

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