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Have you ever? Those innocence quizzes
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Have you ever? Those innocence quizzes I wrote a piece some time ago called, Have you Ever?. It was a piece about how adventuresome people had been, but it was not a poll... just a thought provoking piece noting the pleasures I'd experienced during those many different sexual 'acts'. I've been thinking about this further and concluded it's not about the acts one has performed, but how it has felt, the partnership combined with the act. One of the beautiful sides to being human is that we can step back and reassess, though I don't believe we typically 'change' ourselves, we can certainly 'expand' our understanding to include experiences we might previously have denied ourselves. Note how I said that - 'denied ourselves' - in many cases we simply avoid stepping out of our comfort zones. Examples of what I've done in the past to step out of my comfort zone include flying across the country to<b> meet a woman </font></b>I only knew via and phone conversations. That's not too odd, except that the situation really had no way of resolving if we did fall in love, and we did. I was wrong about it not resolving itself - I now know that it could have, and made subsequent mistakes that forced the idea that it could not work to be true. I've fallen in love with women who smoke - and I don't find it to be a turn-off, though I worry about their health. What I found was that those who smoke a lot are soaked in the smell, and their body chemistry is affected it - that has never worked for me, because I love the taste of a woman, and smoking changes that. Those who smoke infrequently a pack every four days or so and don't smoke indoors, etc. tend to not be steeped in the smoke and I've found can taste wonderful. I realize how sexy this is not... bear with me. A former relationship of mine ended when my girlfriend came out as gay. I was wise enough to be glad for her, even if painful for me. It was a tremulous bit of confusion for me, but in the end I found myself happy that it happened sooner than later. That said, after this revelation, we had some of the freest sex we'd ever had. The elephant in the room had been acknowledged and we became free to be two passionate individuals who enjoyed each other sexually a couple times soon after she came out. In a way it as 'make-up sex', even though we were breaking up. Here are the 'acts'... Anal sex - I've given, but not received - still waiting for it to feel right if it ever does. Have you ever? Oral sex - It's hard to believe, but many people have had little or no oral sex - either giving or receiving. My recent former wife would not let me go down on her.... I know, right?? She also never went down on me... I KNOW, RIGHT??  When we first met we had a great sex life despite this, but over time, I realized, these intimacies can be quite important to keeping things interesting and exciting for the individuals. 'Regular sex' (whatever that is) can be pretty boring. What's your story?Bondage - I've bound a partner before, and while interesting, she was not the right person, as she did not know or express at the time her interest or lack of interest in it. She went along, is all. This is an area that is of interest to me, though not a top of the list item. Have you ever?  S&M - While I've not engaged in accessorized S&M, I've certainly spanked and been spanked, been scratched, and squeezed and restrained... and it just happened, and I never would have labeled it S&M. Pain, except as a byproduct of passion, is of no interest to me. The times I've spanked a woman, I didn't even know I was doing it in the heat of the moment... Have you ever? Deepthroat - This is oral sex, but I separate it because it fascinates me... for two reasons. One, I've been deepthroated and it was horrible... because it was just an act, not the particular passion of the woman deepthroating me. It was not slow, not sensual, just her doing what she saw done in some porn video at some time. I feel like I probably yawned while it happened. Second reason is because when I see the wonderfully sensual and intentional, learned practitioners - 'Heather Brooke' comes to mind (she and her husband did dozens of videos of her deepthroating his 8+" cock in many scenarios), and it enthralled me. Still waiting for the real experience. Have you ever? Squirting - As a man... a bit different than for a woman. But I recently had a lover who I found I could go down on and her to , then using my fingers, press inward and upward in her cunt, and she'd juice all over my fingers. It was enlightening and the first time of so many times I'd gone down on a woman, that this has happened. Men kind of squirt in a different way. Chemicals run wild in us when aroused, and in my youth, I was so affected this that when I came after prolonged periods of arousal, I could nearly hit the ceiling from the bed, AND there was a huge of liquid, not thick which is typical. I still experience that, though much less frequently, in particular recently with a particular woman whose mere presence turns me inside out. Eating at the Y - OK - also 'oral', but I separate it because going down on a woman and bringing her to orgasm is really different than oral as foreplay, though with some women it is both. I had a lover some years ago who I LOVED to go down on. We had a close, spiritual connection as well as a great sexual one. She tasted great, and I found I could drive her wild and she would clamp my head between her legs and orgasm and orgasm... it was the best, in part because we spent the time to get to know each other, patience and passion. What's your story, either of giving, or receiving - especially interested in women's experiences with other women.  There are dozens of other 'have you ever' moments, outdoor or public sex, sex in a pool or water or hot tub... sex, bi or gay experiences (if not 'bi' or 'gay'  , position sex (Kama Sutra and such), toy experiences, sex swings, body painting... There are 'have you evers' that I don't want to touch on because they are truly outside my zone of interest. As always - love to hear comments and of course, this is about your experiences! Have you ever? Check out my erotic stories looking up wordwordwords or rm_wordswolf in Erotic Stories https://sexfinder/stories/ |
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The more I think about it, the more 'have you ever's' come to mind... probably an endless number... let me know! ! ! WWW
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OH heck - don't forget handjobs in the car! ...\8
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I absolutely love oral and can’t get enough of it from hookups! Some of the best I remember was with a guy who kept switching between fucking and going down on me, I came very hard on his cock and tongue! I really enjoy sucking cock as well, if the guy doesn’t cum from fucking me I get turned on taking his load filing my mouth or over my chest
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12/14/2019 11:17 am |
interresting question would have to think about more before i answer.
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12/15/2019 7:50 am |
Hmmm.... have to think on this topic
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