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To all 40 / 50 something single males  

Strule58 62M
1 posts
6/26/2019 1:01 pm
To all 40 / 50 something single males


I have been on the site 36 hours, not 2 full days and the of flirts, -listings and viewings I have got is ridiculous. I wouldn't mind if these were from women live in the British Isles because there would be at a small chance we could eventually meet up.

However, and this is the big bit, there are all, barring or exceptions, from the USA or Canada, and, all in their 30's, and all looking for their tru love, or soulmate. Can you see a trend here? By now, 5 profiles of women contacted me have been de-activated, I think because of misuse, or something like that.

person blocked me because I have the nerve ask for naked photos (I thought tyhis was a sex site - No?) . This was after she revealed herself to be white - her profile picture was of a<b> black women </font></b>- and she lived in Ghana, now the USA as stated.

Another thing that gave her away was the way she wrote, her written English was what I can describe as disjointed. A few years ago I was on a different dating site (I know, I know, this is the best ) when I got caught a of time - financially - by people claimed be local, about 20 years younger than me but again proved be living in Central Africa. I did see some nice videos but nothing worth what I eventually paid . I could see better free stuff on Xhamster.

All I'm trying say is be careful of these scam artists. There are a lot of good, genuine people on here, but like the saying goes, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Just take your time, read everything carefully and check their profile photos, has used photos of 3 different people.

So the warnings signs (as far as I am concerned) are:-
1) They live more than 3000 miles away
2) They are in their 30's (or 20 years younger than the targeted )
3) Looking for true love or their soulmate
4) If you with them, their English is disjointed (think Yoda)

As they used say in Hill Street Blues - Let's be careful there

Xtra_Milk 43M

7/14/2019 2:55 am

Agreed.

Sadly I think the people who run the site are running quite a few fake accounts too. Seems to be getting worse in that respect.


belfastnewguy 59M
2 posts
9/28/2019 12:49 am

Yea, it took me a while to find out there are very few from NI who actually meet lol


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