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Hitting on Women  

MyMyMySexy 28M
9 posts
10/8/2019 10:13 am
Hitting on Women

Does anybody have advice on how hit on women/pick up chicks IRL? I haven't really been able meet anybody on this site, and I always want get something going when I see a cute girl in the mall or something. But I'm really nervous, and have fear of miscommunication. What's the best way approach women in a way that says you're into them, that's not creepy?

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
10/8/2019 10:17 am

 hire a stunt double ?


seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
10/8/2019 10:36 am

 Well I'm going to start with on here... your profile doesn't say anything about you or who you are looking for... this needs to be filled out, women read profiles, although men don't!
As for in the Mall... hmmm I'm not sure I can answer this.. men obviously might help you better here
I would suggest a coffee shop and maybe chat to someone there, maybe about a film, or a book.. but hey! I'm old..


ChrisOnHere801 47M
33 posts
10/8/2019 10:38 am

 Conquer your fear of looking stupid/being awkward. It is not easy. You will have awkward moments and you will feel totally stupid, however, if you keep trying you will eventually get to a point where you don't care anymore. It's wierd, but when you don't really care about the outcome of the conversation (you don't care if you get her number, or even if she likes you) that's when You will begin to have success talking with random women.
As for conversation starters, try starting with either something in the environment around you, or something you have in common.


ryan121978 45M
Ask me for a photo
6 posts
10/8/2019 10:50 am

 I’ll just say this, I spent too much of my 20s being nervous and then I finally figured out that if you just take the chance, things works out. I never used a line or anything, I always thought they were cheesy, just said hi. Hell, tell her that you’re nervous and she’ll probably appreciate it and help you out. Nothings 100%, but real life seems to be way easier (and more fun) than here or anywhere online.


Bettibenobo 68F
423 posts
10/8/2019 4:07 pm

 IRL when you see someone you're attracted to, try catching their eye and show them a nice, non-leering smile. You never know they might respond with a smile and then you can say hi.
Its hard in the real world and the internet does not make things easier for shy people.


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