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My AFF Observations  

YoginBooBoo3 58M
0 posts
7/10/2019 8:12 pm
My AFF Observations


Well, I never thought I would ever care share much about what I have experienced since being on this site. I would really its more like observations. Things that after 50+ years of living I just don't understand. But I digress, here is my first ever blog.

So first of all, This is not first rodeo with FriendFinder-x. I have been on here off and on for several years. Having said that, I can say the people on here have surely changed over the years. Can't say that it all bad, or even all good, it's just different. For example, when I first was a member, there didn't seem be as many fakes as there are now. Fakes as in scammers. They really don't try hide it very well either. I mean, go and search who is on I'M right now, and you find any number of people that have a nice photo, but when you read their profile, you automatically see that they type in broken English, which is a dead give away for someone not in this country. Their city location might even say that they are close to where you live. A common tactic they use, is to see where your from, and then change their profile location to a town close to you. Sometimes they just make up a city. Heck I caught one that used the same picture and profile, but changed her city location three times. When I called her on it, she quickly deactivated her . It's not that I care what they are up , I just want deal with people that are legit, and really want , have a conversation, and hopefully meet down the road,

Another observation is today's women are not shy about telling you just what they want. That is a far cry from yesteryear. Again, I'm not sure that's a bad thing. In fact, I would say that it might even speed up the whole process. If you know what they want, and you can provide it, then bingo bango. If you can't, then you both move on down the road. But if they are not being honest with you, then it's just a really bad game that they are playing with you. I have a couple of scenarios in that we got up to the part where we were to meet, and they never showed up, and all but one never was to be seen again on here. The one that did respond, regained my trust, and then took me on the same ride once again. (Thanks Shannon) stupid, or an eternal optimist, but I still believe most people do try do the right thing most of the time.

So that is all for this blog. I guess it's most;y me venting. But regardless, it is right from the heart.

HAMONMAN 64M
13128 posts
7/10/2019 9:32 pm

A good summary of some of the current issues.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
7/11/2019 1:58 pm

It's kind of a no brainer that when women make their sexual intentions known
they tend not to go out with those they've told.And for good reason .So when this site was touting get laid in 24hrs.I pretty much knew what expect in all the blogs I would be reading when I came here for the sole intention of blogging.

I also wasn't surprised ,like a lot of the older women seemed to be,that they were being bombarded by youngsters.Of course they were eating it up,Using the common notion that they wouldn't date anyone their kids age.The porn industries
most popular genre being MILF"s and cougars that kids nowadays with their instant access 24\7 to porn they equated it to real life.Which of course is getting there by leaps and bounds.

The biggest and most prevalent conversation was then and still is,is
the adversarial way women talk\ed about men.They'll go into a long rambling discourse about maturity,rudeness and lack of respect.Some will say some men and more use the all men in their pieces.Most cases I'll challenge their insults
and nastiness.Come to realise I'm about the only to takes a bit of a defensive stand.Where most guys just kiss asses and agree with everything said.
I forget to take into account that it's impossible to take a stand when one doesn't have the support of a back bone!

Using more than all the road!


Dreamakerwet 62F

7/28/2019 2:31 pm

HEY I LEARNED SOME THINGS FROM YOUR BLOG AND THANKS. I WAS ON HERE AND THEN GOT OFF FOR MANY MONTHS. WAS WITH A NOT SO NICE GUY ANYWAY WHEN I DECIDED TO GET BACK ON I HAD CHANGED PHONES TWICE AND COULDN'T REMEMBER ANYTHING TO GET BACK ON MY PROFILE SO I DID START ANOTHER ONE. THAT IS HOW I WAS ABLE TO GET BACK ON MY OTHER ONE. I DO NEED TO DEACTIVATE THE OTHER ONE I DON'T USE IT BUT IT IS LIKE FACEBOOK WHEN YOU CHANGE ELECTRONICS EVERYTHING GETS WEIRD. ON THE WOMEN AND MOSTLY THE US OLDER ONES I THINK WE ARE MORE OUTSPOKEN BECAUSE WE KNOW OUR BODIES BETTER AND WE CAN EXPRESS OUR DESIRES BETTER BECAUSE WE HAVE THE CONFINDENCE. GREAT FIRST BLOG. YOU SHOULD CHECK MY BLOGS OUT.



DREAMAKERWET ALWAYS LEARNING WITH AN OPEN MIND


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