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Sex or Bust!!  

Melbass55 61F
117 posts
4/21/2020 9:53 pm
Sex or Bust!!

Just out of<b> curiosity...</font></b>how many married/attached guys are actually having sex with their significant others since lockdown?? Or...are you wondering where to bury the body?? Is this where we separate the men from the boys? Are you're true colors shining thru...or...have you raised the white flag? I think this is a great time for all of you to consider the reasons why you got married or chose your significant other in the first place. ( If it was for the sex and you're not getting any now... I think it's time to raise that white flag!) Every divorce attorney is gonna have a field day when this is over. Anyway, what I should be seeing is alot of "deactivated" accounts...or...alot of "new" members, but, I'm not seeing either. what's goin on? You guys still can't decide...or...are you about to change your profile to "couple" looking for...? Or...are you finally taking care of that "honey-do" list that she gave you 6 months ago?!! Can't pull that "I'll do that when I have time" excuse...because you got all the time in the world now!!! ( Aren't you glad you saved that stuff for a rainy day...just like you told her!!) Maybe...she'll reward you with sex!! I honestly hope that isn't the case. I like to think, that sex isn't being used that way...because in relationships...sex shouldn't be conditional. But, we both know, that the second your wife says..."We'll have sex tonight if"...home depot would be dropping off paint and supplies at your house faster than a fart in the wind. Hmmm... maybe you just need a laxative?

bertnj1 66M  
11 posts
7/1/2020 9:13 am

 Wife and I have not had intercourse for a year, we masturbate each other to orgasm, take a shower and go about the day once or twice a month. We have an adult child at home so that makes it a bit difficult mentally. I'm a bit overweight so she doesn't want that, got a bad back doesn't want to hurt that...not hung, don't care...it's basically 30+ years of taking care of each other outside and a little inside the bedroom. Before covid it was the same, no change sexually. I play, hint, touch but it's a giggle, smile and back to whatever else. It's love and friendship, we take care of each other but that little bit extra is missing, hence why I am here. So she is either getting some outside or just really doesn't care. Once or twice the the D word was used before and only once did she say go for it in anger. I feel alone many days but she and the family can't function with the alternative.


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