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Two Can Play That Game
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Two Can Play That Game So, clearly I get alot of men readers for my blog because...lets face it...thats who I talk to the most on here. But, I think its about time I wrote something geared more towards the women...specifically...married or attached women. Unfortunately...the women I'm speaking about... or to...are probably not on this site...but...you never know. Anyway...here goes. Ladies...I have a question for you...WHY WON'T YOU HAVE SEX WITH YOUR HUSBANDS/BOYFRIENDS???? Do you not understand that sex is part of a relationship?? I'm not saying it's the ONLY aspect of a relationship...but...it is a very important component. It's what you sign up for when you agree to become part of a couple. And usually...in the beginning...it's full steam ahead. But, then, something changes. I mean...I get it. You have ...you both work...family obligations...yada...yada...yada. You're tired, or...some of you develop "medical problems" and you just can't have sex anymore. ( Trust me...I hear this excuse more than I care to admit from the guys on here...just sayin.) I am not judging,( that's not how i roll), I am, however, wondering if any of this is actually true. I'm just asking why the sex part of your supposed "loving" relationship with your guy is the first thing that disappears? I mean...you do love him...right? Why are you not showing him? We all need human interaction...especially if you're in a relationship. It really is a healthy part of your relationship...and one that needs attention. I know what you're thinking...the , the bills, work..blah, blah, blah! I been there...done that! I know! But, when you truly love someone...you will make the time to show them. ( And I'm not talking about..." well, i make dinner every night...I do his laundry...I clean the house...I take care of the ". Again...BLAH,BLAH,BLAH!! So...let me explain what happens when you don't have sex with them. HE FINDS SOMEONE ELSE ON HERE TO HAVE SEX WITH!!! It's that simple!! You leave him no choice but to seek affection elsewhere...and this...being a sex site...is where he finds it! I chat with married and attached guys ALL the time! They all say the same thing...and I quote..." she's not interested in sex anymore. She says she's tired." That is a lame excuse and you should be ashamed of yourselves for treating your significant others that way. Don't get me wrong...I know some of you have legitimate medical reasons, ( some of the guys on here really stick up for you on that one), but, let's face it, we all know who's really being<b> truthful </font></b>and who's not. And you know who you are too. And just so you know ladies...I told the guys that if she wasn't having sex with you...she wasn't having it alone...again...just sayin. |
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I like that you explored another aspect of the issues. The point of view today is one you don't see very often expressed. Kudos for taking the road less travelled. Embrace the suck
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