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Why is honesty so hard?
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Why is honesty so hard? So, I had met someone from here. She’s also married, and was not satisfied with her sex life with her husband. Similar situations, except mine has been non-existent for 4 1/2 years. So web chat, email, and are getting along great. Exchange pictures, still getting along, very flirtatious emails.Some are even a little racy. We finally decide to do what I call a meet and greet. That’s where you don’t have much time, just meet, talk a little, and see if there’s chemistry. So we met, and I still felt attracted to her, but apparently that feeling wasn’t reciprocal. She cancelled our picnic we had scheduled for the next day, said she had to work. Okay.....I’ll buy that. She also said that she was struggling about going outside of her marriage. Ok....I understand that as well. So the emails continued, still a bit flirtatious but nowhere as much as before. Then, this week, she decided that she couldn’t talk with me anymore because she was still struggling with going outside of her marriage and wanted to give that another try. I respect that and all cummincation is cut off. Okay. Done. Except now I see her back on FriendFinder-x. HUH? If you’re not attracted, or don’t feel chemistry, why can’t you just say so? I’m an adult, I can handle, hell, I prefer the truth. Why is that so difficult? |
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9/21/2019 10:02 am |
All I know is what I was told. Maybe she is just chatting and nothing more. Based on our conversations, she hadn’t done that before, but things change. Yeah, the meet and greet was a spontaneous thing, definitely not planned. Oh well......I wasn’t hurt by it, I’m a big boy, I can handle stuff like that. No politics in my blog, that’s why I’m deleting that comment. My blog, my rules.
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Next time you get the attention of a woman, just skip to the "Meet and greet".... don't waste your time pretending you have attraction for someone online. When people flirt online, without ever meeting the person. they are really just flirting with an imaginary person, their own mind created for them. Now to the honesty question... Someone doesn't know how you, or someone else will react when told factually, "Ewww no", or something like that.
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Just like Saltie said, some men can't take "No" for an answer. I always try to be honest, but polite, but sometimes the man replies with, "Well, then, good luck with your saggy, old tits! Hope you find a pity fuck!" Totally unnecessary - deleted and blocked. Have a great day, and be nice to one another.
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Its hard to say what any ones motivation is ....for anything. Perhaps she was becoming tooooo invested and had a hard time reconciling that with her marriage. Being back here...hmmm...i dunno. All of us creatures are hard to figure out...lol. I will say...i had a similar situation...i briefly blog mentioned it. After 6 months he IM's me again. I said....after what u said , my seeing you back on site was confusing. He has yet to comment on that. So who knows. I was told to take what people say...with a HUGE grain of salt. That has helped lessen the disappointments. Good Luck ~~
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A pic nic planned the next day was a bit quick and a very good indicator of possible smothering moves in the future. Women have an infinite supply of prospects. They're like their fix so being on the site is just a learned response.I wonder if her husband was elated with the news or if he will be? If she ever gets around to telling him! Using more than all the road!
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