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Real/Fake but does anyone actually talk on here?  

JamesHowlett870 36M
0 posts
9/21/2019 5:47 am
Real/Fake but does anyone actually talk on here?

I feel like IM on FriendFinder-x has great aspirations, but tends to be difficult for some people including myself. I have created profiles where I posted a photo of my face and others with my body and I yield similar results. I feel like women on here don't either want to meet or talk or are just overwhelmed with the mass amount of messages they get or just try to be picky because well they can be. Women have immense amounts of power online which I'm not against, but for a nice, chill guy like me to find someone shouldn't take me 6 months to a year on this site. I think that men and women should have equal opportunities with an online site. I know that there are a lot of<b> creepy </font></b>guys out there, but it sucks that nice guys have to be punished because of the creeps out there. I think that there needs to be some sort of system or way for the program to know you are a chill honest person so that when girls see your profile or your name it has a symbol next to it saying that you are a good honest real person who is civil, nice and wants sex. It shouldn't be difficult. Think of a rating system after a conversation you had with someone. How would you rate the conversation 1 out of 5 stars and how would you rate the person based on personality 1 to 5 out of kindness and respect. That simple and those that get good ratings will be considered more legit people versus just a verified statement. I think civility is key when it comes to building a relationship with someone even if its just for a one night stand and I think people need to know that. We need to make people feel more comfortable to be themselves and talk to people who aren't going to stalk them or pester them. Well that's my two cents. What do you think?

seems6666 53F  
4838 posts
9/21/2019 11:23 am

 Well your profile doesn't say much,, maybe needs editing.
The trouble with reviews is that the can be faked... see Trip Advisor.
It is hard for men on here, and it's a shame the nice guys have to try harder.
Good luck


Heathen_G 65M
7974 posts
9/21/2019 11:34 am

 Really a shame your mom raised you as a "Nice guy".

"Nice" is just not a visceral turn-on for a woman. She's on a sex site, and you want to be her gay buddy? This is why nice guys finish in the shower , alone, or end up with the unattractive woman he did not choose, ....and the more aggressive male [not actually a creep, just more forward than you] gets the woman excited, and gets the woman HE chooses.

You need to stop approaching women online as if they were your baby sister. Stop asking women if they will have sex with you, and start telling women you want to have sex with her and come meet you some place.

Even if the site did have a rating system, women would choose the men who are not nice.

Yes of course the nice men would be chosen at times by troubled , abused, attention needing women, for her owie, but those women who choose him, would not be the women he would want to choose himself. She's looking for Mr. Sensitive, for attention, until Mr. Fuck comes along and bends her over.


JamesHowlett870 36M

9/21/2019 1:06 pm

 Thanks for the responses and after some thinking. I realized I shouldn't be on this site. Thanks everyone.


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